With Christ have I been crucified, yet I am living; no longer I, but living in me is Christ. Now that which I am now living in the flesh, I am living in faith that is of the Son of God, Who loves me, and gives Himself up for me
Paul to the Galatians 2: 20, Concordant New Testament Translation
There have been many attempts throughout our history to determine what defines a man. I recall the Marlboro man cigarette ads in the 70's that depicted a man as a horse riding cowboy type who smoked multiple packs a day. Then, we were told that cigarettes were the main cause of cancer, and the definition of the man changed once again. The author John Eldredge penned the popular Christian book Wild at Heart, which spoke to the identity of a man as the outdoors, risk taking, care free man we at times dream of being. But again, this fell short of the one true definition of what a man truly is in the eyes of the Lord. Most every time someone has tried to define what a man is, it is usually based upon who the world feels that a man should be. Tough, compassionate or wild, it seems that we can't make up our minds on what makes a man. The apostle Paul hits the nail on the head with his own truth of who we are in Christ Jesus. Paul does not strive to define what a man is, but who WE are. He understood the truth, that the old man was gone, having been crucified on that cross with Jesus. All which remains...is Jesus {Paul to the Galatians 2:20}. So, in our attempts to ascertain the identity of a man, we've been missing the mark entirely. This is why I believe that men face an identity crisis. This is the same identity crisis which I faced not that long ago. Believing what the world told me that a man should be. Ignoring what the Father created me to be. It's no secret that, as men, we are bombarded with messages about who we are and how we should act. I have a gym friend who has spoken to the lie that he believes that women hold too much power over men. In my opinion, we've done this to ourselves. Instead of following who the Father has created us to be, we manufacture a false identity which is far different.
So, who is it that God has created me to be? Answer this question, and you're most likely on the road to discovering who it is that you truly are. The truth is that we have been created by God in His own likeness/image {Genesis 1:27}. He has always been a part of who we are. Everything we are or will ever be, has been created by God. So, is God an adventurer, as the author Eldredge sought to establish men as? Absolutely. Following Paul's lead, we can assume that we have never been an independent creation, but have dwelled within the love of the Father. When we look in the mirror, we see the image of Jesus. Jesus Himself speaks to our union life within the Father in the book of John {Johns Account 14:20}. God has not created us to be a separate entity apart from Him. He has created us to live within Him. The lie spoken by the deceiver has convinced many that man is his own, separate being. This is the lie spoken by Satan the deceiver in the garden, that man would "Be like God" {Genesis 3:5-6}. The Christian author Norman Grubb writes about the error in this thinking. That "There is no independent, self-operating self in the universe, except the One Who calls Himself the I AM"{Exodus 3:14}. For their part, the church has fallen for the lie of the deceiver hook, line and sinker. You will seldom hear of our union life within the Father preached from the pulpits of the church. In my opinion, this only adds to the identity crisis facing men today. The truth is that we have been created to live IN the Father and not outside of His love. This is the truth of who we are.
In that day you shall know that I am in My Father, and you in Me, and I in you
Johns Account 14: 20, Concordant New Testament Translation
~Scott~






