Beloved, do not think strange the conflagration among you, which is becoming a trial to you, as of something strange befalling you
Peter to the Dispersion 4: 12, Concordant New Testament
I had one of our Gym Rat community comment the other day, "Doesn't God want me to be happy?" Now, this is also coming from a man who has suddenly lost his perspective on his marriage to his current wife and has been seeking companionship outside of marriage. So, knowing this, I took his comments with a grain of salt. But then I pose that question as well. Does God mean for us to be happy in life? Was Jesus happy every day of His life? The obvious answer is and always will be no. Jesus even speaks to our trials and tribulations in this world {Johns Account 16:33}. So, what would bring someone to the thought that God desires His children to be always happy? Well, it has been revealed unto us (For those with the eyes to see) that the one true nature of God is love {First epistle of John 4:8}. But does love ensure constant happiness? I would say no. For even though God is love, we are told in scripture that His emotions shift, as our do, to that of being grieved as well {Genesis 6:6}. It is known that Jesus wept over the death of His friend Lazarus {Johns Account 11:35}. We also know that it is Jesus who angrily sent the moneychangers out of the Jewish temple {Matthew 21:12-13}. So it is safe to say that God does not expect His creation to be, as Duck Commander Phil Robertson was so fond of saying, happy, happy, happy. Yet, knowing that we will indeed encounter trials and tribulations in this life, the Father has not left us discouraged by any means. The apostle Peter speaks to our not thinking it strange when these tribulations overtake us {Peter to the Dispersion 4:12}. For our part, we can fully expect that these times will come. We've been warned. Knowing this truth, I can honestly say that it is not the intent of God that each day will be a happy one. However, one thing that we can be certain of is that we live each and every day in Him {Johns Account 14:20}. I may even suggest that the Lord does not expect us to be happy when we are forsaking His covenant of marriage, but that's just me talking.
Wherefore I delight in infirmities, in outrages, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses, for Christ's sake, whenever I may be weak, then I am powerful
Paul to the Corinthians (2) 12:10, Concordant New Testament
Although I didn't mention it to my Gym brother at the time, the apostle Paul has given unto us a wonderful example to follow when it comes to the trials and tribulations of life. I cannot think of many who endured all which Paul has for the sake of Christ. Anyone who reads the evangel of Paul will clearly see that he was not happy every day. But if there is one thing that Paul was is faithful. He knew that his ultimate destination was not of this world. Paul reveals his thoughts when he thinks on the importance his life holds. For him, to die in this life was gain {Paul to the Philippians 1:21}. Paul's focus was never on this world and how to be happy, but on Christ Jesus. Far too many believers, myself included, have at times fallen into the trap of thinking that God is somehow angry or upset with them for allowing such tribulations in life. This thinking comes straight from the mainstream church separation theology which speaks to our being separated from God. It also relegates our life to our own performance standards. If we misbehave (sin) then we should be expecting God to be upset with us. Paul speaks against this in regards to our own salvation. He speaks to the truth that our salvation is a gift from the Lord and not as a result of anything we have done {Paul to the Ephesians 2:8-9}. This is one truth of the evangel of Paul that I wish my eyes had been opened to sooner. I've spent a good portion of my life worrying that God somehow didn't see me as worthy of His love. Again, I give credit to the mainstream church for fostering this lie. The truth is, God is love, and His desire is that He live in fellowship with His children not only in this earthly life, but for the eon as well.
~Scott~