Then, approaching, Peter said to Him, "Lord, how many times shall my brother be sinning against me and I shall be pardoning him? Till seven times?" Jesus is saying to him, "I am not saying to you 'Till seven times,' but 'till seventy times and seven.'
Matthews Account 18: 21-22, Concordant New Testament
When I'm reminded of that most difficult of words, I think of a few scenes from the Chosen series. How difficult it must have been for Simon to reconcile with his brother Matthew the former tax collector. We witness the struggle as the two inch closer to what might be a final confrontation. Yet, in an effort to better understand his brother, Simon one evening seeks the council of Jesus for his situation. Although Jesus is well aware of the angst which his disciple carries for his brother, He listens to him nonetheless. Then, Jesus presents Simon with something even more difficult in his eyes. When he asks his teacher how many times must he forgive his brother, Jesus answers him, "I am not saying to you till seven times, but till seventy times seven" {Matthews Account 18:21-22}. To Simon, the answer to his question seemed insurmountable, was Jesus actually asking him to forgive Matthew of all of his trespasses against him? Their conversation ends with Simon walking away pondering these words of Jesus. However, later in the series we are witness to that moment of reconciliation between Simon and Matthew. I was reminded of this the other day in a conversation with one of my gym rat friends. Not being privy to his situation, I could tell that he was obviously carrying a grudge against someone he knew. When I broached the topic of the hardest word, he responded that he "Might" be able to forgive the other persons actions, but that he could never trust them again. I get it. I get it because I myself have been in that same situation more times than I can count. In those moments, I too would have found the words of Jesus a hard pill to swallow. Yet as I listened to the words of my friend, I knew what he needed to do to rectify his situation with his brother. This is exactly why the word forgiveness is all too often one of the most difficult words we will ever speak to another person.
I can recall being upset with another Christian brother to the point that I even considered forsaking attending church simply in order that I would not have to face him. In my mind, my own pride told me that I was right and that my brother needed to recognize that. But forgiveness isn't about pride at all, but about forsaking pride for the love and mercy which the Father has already given to us freely. Indeed, while we were yet sinners, it is Christ Jesus who gave Himself for us {Paul to the Romans 5:8}. Is it any wonder, then, that Jesus would speak to us about the act of forgiveness? Even in the midst of His suffering, Jesus implored the Father "Father, forgive them, for they are not aware what they are doing" {Lukes Account 23:34}. What do we do in the midst of our suffering at the hands of another? Do we follow the lead of Jesus, seeking the Fathers forgiveness for them? Or, as I have often done, do we allow our pride to take over and make it that more difficult to proclaim that most difficult of words? How much pride can we see in Simon as he struggles with his forgiveness of Matthew? He called his anger justified against this former tax collector who had wronged him. As Jesus calls Matthew to follow Him, Simon pulls him aside and asks angrily, "Do you know what this man has done?" Of course, Jesus knows all too well what we've done in the past. He also knows that He Himself has suffered that our sin debt would be paid in full {Paul to the Corinthians (2) 5:21}. Even as He perished on that cross, Jesus uttered that most difficult of words for our sake.
Yet become kind to one another, tenderly compassionate, dealing graciously among yourselves, according as God also, in Christ, deals with you
Paul to the Ephesians 4: 32, Concordant New Testament
~Scott~






