Adulterers and adulteresses! Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Whoever therefore wants to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God.
James 4: 4 NKJV
How bad do you want to fit in? Almost every place we go these days we have cliques of people around us. Be it at work, school or even church, we see groups of people seperating themselves from others. I don't like to say that some of these groups exalt themselves above other people, but sometimes this is the case. This is most prevalent in our school systems, where kids and teens who don't "fit in" are often harassed, teased and abused all because they are different from the "In" people. Think this only happens in schools? Well, I've seen it happen in the workplace and in church as well. What makes people behave this way? I believe it's a desire to hold ourselves above others, to be accepted. So, what is someone of the christian faith to do when faced with this situation? When we desire friendship, will we compromise our faith to achieve it? The book of James makes it clear, if we desire friendship with the world, we will have enmity with God. The word Enmity can be described as a "Deep rooted hatred." So, taken literaly, if we have friendship with the world then we have a "Deep rooted hatred for God." Think this is harsh language? Well, I believe that the bible is the word of God, and no amount of political correctness is needed to interpret it. So, what are we to do if our desire to fit in collides with our religious faith? First, I believe that fitting in with whatever clique of people if out there is in no way worth compromising our beliefs and morals. That being said, there have been times when I have chosen to be a part of the "In" crowd, but I've managed to keep my integrity thankfully. Most of the time it was using bad language simply because some others around me were doing the same. Did I participate in any Hazings or abusive behavior? No, but what I did was still wrong. Hard to believe from such a loveable sort as myself huh? Also, alot has been said recently about bullying in our schools. This is the very same behavior the book of James is speaking of. If your kids are engaged in this behavior, PLEASE have a talk with them. It never feels good to be on the outside looking in, a stranger among other people. We don't need to compromise our faith when confronted with rejection by others. In fact, God may be working through us to bring another person to Jesus.
Monday, August 31, 2015
Sunday, August 30, 2015
Things Are Tough All Over
My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing. And if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him. But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven and tossed by the wind. For let not that man suppose that he will receieve anything from the Lord; he is a double minde man, unstable in all his ways.
James 1: 2-8 NKJV
I've heard this verse in James mentioned countless times to guide and encourage us as we go through trials of life. If there's one thing the scriptures are clear about, is that WE WILL face trials in this life. These trials can be common troubles faced by everyone, or unique to one individual. Whatever they are, they can shake our lives when they come. Don't be misled by seeing the lives of others who outwardly seem to be doing well, many people hide the troubles they are going through and put on mask that everything is fine. I know I did many times. Alot has been said and written as to why God allows his children to go through such difficult times. That answer is provided for us already.
Therefore, having been justifed by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we also have acces by faith into this grace in which we stand, and rejoice in the hope of the glory of God. And not only that, but we also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; and perseverance character, and character hope. Now hope does not disapoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the holy spirit who was given to us.
Romans 5: 2-5 NKJV
For those of us not used to the parlance of that day, "Tribulation" means trials. We now have two places in scripture that tell us to rejoice in the trials that God has told us would come. Trust me, there's more. We get a glimpse of why God allows trials in the lives of believers in both Romans and James, but allow me to introduce you to a man of faith named Job.
There was a man in the land of Uz, whose name was JOb; and that man was blameless and upright, and one who feared God and shunned evil.
Job 1:1 NKJV
So, this man Job, seemes as if he is a man of God and faith whom God would favor right? Well, along came Satan the accuser to bring tribulation onto Jobs life, and God allowed it. We've all heard of the trials of Job and all that he lost, literally everything he had. In the midst of all of this chaos we see Jobs perfect response to the trials he's in.
Then his wife said to him, "Do you still hold fast to your integrity? Curse God and die!" But he said to her, "You speak as one of the foolish women speaks. Shall we indeed accept good from God, and shall we not accept adversity?" In all this Job did not sin with his lips.
Job 2:9 NKJV
How many of us can even come close to making this claim? As the trials of life swirl around us, we stop and say to ourselves "Shall we accept good from God and not adversity?" When I've gone through these times, at times my first inclanation is to get angry and question Gods motives. Lord, I'm a christian, why are you allowing this? Contrary to popular belief, we christians are not immune from adversity. How should we handle ourselves when these times come? Well, we'd do well to recognize that God has a purpose for allowing these times in our lives. More often than not, he may be using these times to grow us. Yeah, that sounds like cheap advice to someone who's gooing through a rough time, but it's true. That is why our own testimonies are so incredibly valuable, because we can use those times when we've been hurting to help others who are going through their own adversity. Somehow, I feel that's how God set things up anyway.
~Scott~
James 1: 2-8 NKJV
I've heard this verse in James mentioned countless times to guide and encourage us as we go through trials of life. If there's one thing the scriptures are clear about, is that WE WILL face trials in this life. These trials can be common troubles faced by everyone, or unique to one individual. Whatever they are, they can shake our lives when they come. Don't be misled by seeing the lives of others who outwardly seem to be doing well, many people hide the troubles they are going through and put on mask that everything is fine. I know I did many times. Alot has been said and written as to why God allows his children to go through such difficult times. That answer is provided for us already.
Therefore, having been justifed by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we also have acces by faith into this grace in which we stand, and rejoice in the hope of the glory of God. And not only that, but we also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; and perseverance character, and character hope. Now hope does not disapoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the holy spirit who was given to us.
Romans 5: 2-5 NKJV
For those of us not used to the parlance of that day, "Tribulation" means trials. We now have two places in scripture that tell us to rejoice in the trials that God has told us would come. Trust me, there's more. We get a glimpse of why God allows trials in the lives of believers in both Romans and James, but allow me to introduce you to a man of faith named Job.
There was a man in the land of Uz, whose name was JOb; and that man was blameless and upright, and one who feared God and shunned evil.
Job 1:1 NKJV
So, this man Job, seemes as if he is a man of God and faith whom God would favor right? Well, along came Satan the accuser to bring tribulation onto Jobs life, and God allowed it. We've all heard of the trials of Job and all that he lost, literally everything he had. In the midst of all of this chaos we see Jobs perfect response to the trials he's in.
Then his wife said to him, "Do you still hold fast to your integrity? Curse God and die!" But he said to her, "You speak as one of the foolish women speaks. Shall we indeed accept good from God, and shall we not accept adversity?" In all this Job did not sin with his lips.
Job 2:9 NKJV
How many of us can even come close to making this claim? As the trials of life swirl around us, we stop and say to ourselves "Shall we accept good from God and not adversity?" When I've gone through these times, at times my first inclanation is to get angry and question Gods motives. Lord, I'm a christian, why are you allowing this? Contrary to popular belief, we christians are not immune from adversity. How should we handle ourselves when these times come? Well, we'd do well to recognize that God has a purpose for allowing these times in our lives. More often than not, he may be using these times to grow us. Yeah, that sounds like cheap advice to someone who's gooing through a rough time, but it's true. That is why our own testimonies are so incredibly valuable, because we can use those times when we've been hurting to help others who are going through their own adversity. Somehow, I feel that's how God set things up anyway.
~Scott~
In Relation To Giving
So let each one give as he purposes in his heart, not grudgingly or of necessity; for God loves a cheerful giver.
2 Corinthians 9:7 NKJV
We've all heard the phrase "Give until it hurts" either from the pulpit or from another christian friend. To me, this idea misrepresents what Paul was trying to get across in 2 Corinthians 2:7. If we give because we are "made" or guilted into giving, won't this bring resentment in the giver? The true heart of a person is shown when they give of what they have without being asked. In Mark 12:41-44 Jesus gave a powerful lesson on giving.
Now Jesus sat opposite the treasury and saw how people put money into the treasury. And many who were rich put in much. Then one poor widow came and threw in two mites, which make a quadrans. So he called his disciples to Himself and said to them, "Assuredly, I say to you that this poor widow has put in more than all those who have given to the treasury; for they all put in out of their abundance, but she out of her poverty put in all that she had, her whole livlihood."
Mark 12: 41-44 NKJV
Now, if anyone knew the true heart of a giver when he saw it, it was our Lord Jesus. If we agree that God loves a cheerful giver, which of these did God treasure? Granted, we're not told if the rich gave out of compulsion, but they didn't give all that they had either. They certainly didn't "Give till it hurt."
I believe that the much used (and abused) scripture in Malachi 3:10 has been misrepresented by many of us today, although it doesn't surprise me at all. To put this into context, we need to remember that the priestly order of the Isrealites, the tribe of Levi, were not allowed to be employed, but were to minister to the people of Isreal. So, without income gained from employment, how were the priests of the nation of Isreal to survive? THAT'S where the tithe comes in. The Isrealites were to bring their tithes to the storehouses in order to support the priests of Isreal. Well, apparently in the days of Malachi the prophet, Isreal wasn't doing too good at this.
"Will a man rob God? Yet you have robbed me! But you say, 'In what way have we robbed you?' In tithes and offerings. You are cursed with a curse, For you have robbed me, Even this whole nation. Bring all the tithes into the storehouse, That there may be food in my house, And try me now in this," Says the Lord of hosts, "If I will not open the windows of heaven and pour out for you such blessing that there will not be room enough to receive it.
Malachi 3: 8-10 NKJV
Robbing God? That's a pretty strong accusation! However, if it's God saying they were robbing him, it's not a accusation but the truth. Yet, even in rebuking the Isrealites, God shows his love and grace by instructing them to give and they will be blessed. Once again, Gods grace is shown to all of Isreal. Now, since the tithe was given to support the priests of the land of Isreal, are we to tithe today to support our local pastors and churches? Well, since the Tithe Malachi was refering to was a part of the "Old Covenant," I'd say no. First off, the Isrealites didn't have multi million dollar "Mega Churches" that needed to be financialy supported. I know this opinion may not be popular, but I'm not about being popular. Given the choice of following Jesus or being popular, I'll follow Jesus every time. That is the reason I get irked every time I hear a pastor say "Give until it hurts and you'll be blessed." I know in my heart that the blessings of my God are not for sale!
~Scott~
2 Corinthians 9:7 NKJV
We've all heard the phrase "Give until it hurts" either from the pulpit or from another christian friend. To me, this idea misrepresents what Paul was trying to get across in 2 Corinthians 2:7. If we give because we are "made" or guilted into giving, won't this bring resentment in the giver? The true heart of a person is shown when they give of what they have without being asked. In Mark 12:41-44 Jesus gave a powerful lesson on giving.
Now Jesus sat opposite the treasury and saw how people put money into the treasury. And many who were rich put in much. Then one poor widow came and threw in two mites, which make a quadrans. So he called his disciples to Himself and said to them, "Assuredly, I say to you that this poor widow has put in more than all those who have given to the treasury; for they all put in out of their abundance, but she out of her poverty put in all that she had, her whole livlihood."
Mark 12: 41-44 NKJV
Now, if anyone knew the true heart of a giver when he saw it, it was our Lord Jesus. If we agree that God loves a cheerful giver, which of these did God treasure? Granted, we're not told if the rich gave out of compulsion, but they didn't give all that they had either. They certainly didn't "Give till it hurt."
I believe that the much used (and abused) scripture in Malachi 3:10 has been misrepresented by many of us today, although it doesn't surprise me at all. To put this into context, we need to remember that the priestly order of the Isrealites, the tribe of Levi, were not allowed to be employed, but were to minister to the people of Isreal. So, without income gained from employment, how were the priests of the nation of Isreal to survive? THAT'S where the tithe comes in. The Isrealites were to bring their tithes to the storehouses in order to support the priests of Isreal. Well, apparently in the days of Malachi the prophet, Isreal wasn't doing too good at this.
"Will a man rob God? Yet you have robbed me! But you say, 'In what way have we robbed you?' In tithes and offerings. You are cursed with a curse, For you have robbed me, Even this whole nation. Bring all the tithes into the storehouse, That there may be food in my house, And try me now in this," Says the Lord of hosts, "If I will not open the windows of heaven and pour out for you such blessing that there will not be room enough to receive it.
Malachi 3: 8-10 NKJV
Robbing God? That's a pretty strong accusation! However, if it's God saying they were robbing him, it's not a accusation but the truth. Yet, even in rebuking the Isrealites, God shows his love and grace by instructing them to give and they will be blessed. Once again, Gods grace is shown to all of Isreal. Now, since the tithe was given to support the priests of the land of Isreal, are we to tithe today to support our local pastors and churches? Well, since the Tithe Malachi was refering to was a part of the "Old Covenant," I'd say no. First off, the Isrealites didn't have multi million dollar "Mega Churches" that needed to be financialy supported. I know this opinion may not be popular, but I'm not about being popular. Given the choice of following Jesus or being popular, I'll follow Jesus every time. That is the reason I get irked every time I hear a pastor say "Give until it hurts and you'll be blessed." I know in my heart that the blessings of my God are not for sale!
~Scott~
Saturday, August 29, 2015
Comfort, not Preaching
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may bebable to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.
2 Corinthians 1: 3-4
What do you say to someone who has been hurt so badly? I am of the belief that the last thing that someone who is hurting wants to hear is another "preachy" bible verse on how God can comfort them. Grief, hurt and pain are real to someone who is going through it, and many times scripture just can't heal those wounds. Although the bible is filled with scripture meant to comfort those in need, all too often when we are going through that fire those verses are the farthest thing from our mind. So, how do we comfort those among us who are hurting? When confronted with those who were hurting, Jesus never used the opportunity to remind someone of the word of God. Although Jesus definately knew the scriptures, his heart in these times was to comfort the afflicted and not to teach them. Teaching would come later.
For me, personaly, having a group of christian friends to surround me in times when I was hurting has meant alot to me. When my mother underwent surgery to remove a tumor on her brain in 2009, I was blessed to have such a group of men stand beside me to lift me up. The doctor had informed us that there was a good chance my mom would not survive her surgery, and this shook me. I didn't need a preacher to recite to me bible verses, I needed a FRIEND. Thankfully, I had a few brothers in Christ who came beside me to remind me of Gods love and grace. I still consider a few of these men VERY close to me today. Did God present this season in my life to develop relationships with these brothers? I'm not sure, but it's certainly not out of his reach to do that. Sometimes just coming beside someone who's hurting can mean more than ANY bible verse can teach us...or someone else.
~Scott~
2 Corinthians 1: 3-4
What do you say to someone who has been hurt so badly? I am of the belief that the last thing that someone who is hurting wants to hear is another "preachy" bible verse on how God can comfort them. Grief, hurt and pain are real to someone who is going through it, and many times scripture just can't heal those wounds. Although the bible is filled with scripture meant to comfort those in need, all too often when we are going through that fire those verses are the farthest thing from our mind. So, how do we comfort those among us who are hurting? When confronted with those who were hurting, Jesus never used the opportunity to remind someone of the word of God. Although Jesus definately knew the scriptures, his heart in these times was to comfort the afflicted and not to teach them. Teaching would come later.
For me, personaly, having a group of christian friends to surround me in times when I was hurting has meant alot to me. When my mother underwent surgery to remove a tumor on her brain in 2009, I was blessed to have such a group of men stand beside me to lift me up. The doctor had informed us that there was a good chance my mom would not survive her surgery, and this shook me. I didn't need a preacher to recite to me bible verses, I needed a FRIEND. Thankfully, I had a few brothers in Christ who came beside me to remind me of Gods love and grace. I still consider a few of these men VERY close to me today. Did God present this season in my life to develop relationships with these brothers? I'm not sure, but it's certainly not out of his reach to do that. Sometimes just coming beside someone who's hurting can mean more than ANY bible verse can teach us...or someone else.
~Scott~
Bad Company
For we have spent enough of our past lifetime in doing the will of the gentiles - when we walked in lewdness,lusts, drunkenness, revelries, drinking parties and abominable idolatries. In regard to these, they think it strange that you do not run with them in the same flood of dissipation, speaking evil of you
1 Peter 4: 3-4 NKJV
I've lost count of how mmany times I've heard the complaint before. In fact, I've made it myself. Sitting in a group of christian guys, someone inevitably will confess that he fell victim to trying to "fit in with the crowd." Whether it be profanity, lusts or some other bad behaviour, they are dismayed at how it easy it was to drift away from God. I can offer some insight from my past experiences. I am a christian, I follow God and try to strengthen my relationship with Jesus daily. However, in the past when I've been surrounded by unbelievers on a regular basis (work, personal relationships) I've found that there are times when I try to "fit in" with these people, engaging in their crude behaviour. Profanity, lust, lying you name it, I've been suckered into it. All in the hope of being "One of the guys." My mom, in her discernment, would often smack me over the head verbaly when she found I was acting in a certain way that she knew was not my true self. "Did you learn that from the guys at work?" she would say when my behavior reflected something I wasn't. What could I say to defend myself? I knew in my heart it was true! Once again, I would be convicted of my bad behavior. What made her "intervention" effective was that she wasn't doing it out of spite, but out of her love for me. We can all learn something from her. Anyway, I digress. More often than not, after being peirced with this truth, I was forced to take a look at what I had been doing. Yes, often appolagies were offered to those I offended. However, you'd think I would learn my lesson and stray from such behavior? That would be too easy I guess. I guess it's true that bad company corrupts good morals. On the possitive side, we can all use our experiences of trying to fit in with the world around us to help others who are struggling. What better way to reach out to someone than from someone who's already been there :)
~Scott~
1 Peter 4: 3-4 NKJV
I've lost count of how mmany times I've heard the complaint before. In fact, I've made it myself. Sitting in a group of christian guys, someone inevitably will confess that he fell victim to trying to "fit in with the crowd." Whether it be profanity, lusts or some other bad behaviour, they are dismayed at how it easy it was to drift away from God. I can offer some insight from my past experiences. I am a christian, I follow God and try to strengthen my relationship with Jesus daily. However, in the past when I've been surrounded by unbelievers on a regular basis (work, personal relationships) I've found that there are times when I try to "fit in" with these people, engaging in their crude behaviour. Profanity, lust, lying you name it, I've been suckered into it. All in the hope of being "One of the guys." My mom, in her discernment, would often smack me over the head verbaly when she found I was acting in a certain way that she knew was not my true self. "Did you learn that from the guys at work?" she would say when my behavior reflected something I wasn't. What could I say to defend myself? I knew in my heart it was true! Once again, I would be convicted of my bad behavior. What made her "intervention" effective was that she wasn't doing it out of spite, but out of her love for me. We can all learn something from her. Anyway, I digress. More often than not, after being peirced with this truth, I was forced to take a look at what I had been doing. Yes, often appolagies were offered to those I offended. However, you'd think I would learn my lesson and stray from such behavior? That would be too easy I guess. I guess it's true that bad company corrupts good morals. On the possitive side, we can all use our experiences of trying to fit in with the world around us to help others who are struggling. What better way to reach out to someone than from someone who's already been there :)
~Scott~
Friday, August 28, 2015
Running On Faith
Now faith is the substance of thngs hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. For by it the elders obtained a good testimony. By faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the word of God, so that the things which ar seen were not made of things that are visible.
Hebrews 11: 1-3 NKJV
What do we say when someone asks why we believe in God? Many times we need to be careful as our answer may ultimately lead a person to Jesus. When I'm asked why I believe in God, my response usualy runs along the lines of that old Sunday school song..."The Bible tells me so!" Indeed, scripture can provide us with many quotes and stories of why we should believe in God, but it is we ourselves that carry our feelings for God in our hearts. I believe that when we're honest about our love for Jesus, it will be clear to those around us. Jesus once gathered little children to him while showing how we must view God and heaven.
Then they brought the little children to him, that he might touch them; but the disciples rebuked those who brought them. But when Jesus saw it, he was greatly displeased and said to them, "Let the little children come to me, and do not forbid them; for such is the kingdom of God. "Assuredly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God as a little child will by no means enter it." And he took them up in his arms, laid His hands on them, and blessed them.
Mark 10: 13-16 NKJV
Those of us who are parents know the unabided faith and trust a young child has in a parent. It's safe to say that, for a good portion of their young lives, parents are the center of a childs universe. Of course, this all changes when a child reaches the teen years and suddenly becomes smarter than their parents :) It is with this unshakeable trust that a child has in a parent that Jesus makes this illustration. It's not that only children can enter Gods kingdom, but those who have a unshakeable trust that God exists. How can we have faith in something we truly don't believe in? I've heard faith described as a "trust that God will do what he promises." whether this is true or not, we still need to be convinced in our hearts that Jesus exists. Then we can share with confidence what he's done in our own lives. Our own testimony can be a powerful tool to tell others about Jesus. We shouldn't worry too much about defending God when others attack him, the creator of the universe is more than strong enough to defend himself :)
~Scott~
Hebrews 11: 1-3 NKJV
What do we say when someone asks why we believe in God? Many times we need to be careful as our answer may ultimately lead a person to Jesus. When I'm asked why I believe in God, my response usualy runs along the lines of that old Sunday school song..."The Bible tells me so!" Indeed, scripture can provide us with many quotes and stories of why we should believe in God, but it is we ourselves that carry our feelings for God in our hearts. I believe that when we're honest about our love for Jesus, it will be clear to those around us. Jesus once gathered little children to him while showing how we must view God and heaven.
Then they brought the little children to him, that he might touch them; but the disciples rebuked those who brought them. But when Jesus saw it, he was greatly displeased and said to them, "Let the little children come to me, and do not forbid them; for such is the kingdom of God. "Assuredly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God as a little child will by no means enter it." And he took them up in his arms, laid His hands on them, and blessed them.
Mark 10: 13-16 NKJV
Those of us who are parents know the unabided faith and trust a young child has in a parent. It's safe to say that, for a good portion of their young lives, parents are the center of a childs universe. Of course, this all changes when a child reaches the teen years and suddenly becomes smarter than their parents :) It is with this unshakeable trust that a child has in a parent that Jesus makes this illustration. It's not that only children can enter Gods kingdom, but those who have a unshakeable trust that God exists. How can we have faith in something we truly don't believe in? I've heard faith described as a "trust that God will do what he promises." whether this is true or not, we still need to be convinced in our hearts that Jesus exists. Then we can share with confidence what he's done in our own lives. Our own testimony can be a powerful tool to tell others about Jesus. We shouldn't worry too much about defending God when others attack him, the creator of the universe is more than strong enough to defend himself :)
~Scott~
Thursday, August 27, 2015
False Intimacy
Or do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot is one body with her? For "the two," He says, "shall become one flesh." But he who is joined to the Lord is one spirit with him. Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are Gods.
1 Corinthians 6: 16-20 NKJV
According to a recent survey, 64% of American men view pornography at least monthly. The percentage of christian men is nearly the same at 79%. 58% of men claimed that they believed viewing pornography was wrong, while 56% claimed to have tried to stop but couldn't. So, over half of American men know that viewing pornography is wrong but could not stop indulging in it. Sound like an addiction to you? I would view knowing something is wrong but being unable to stop as an addiction. I should know, I was one of those guys who was addicted to pornography. As with any drug, this addiction is not overcome easily even when it is. Do I still struggle with this demon? Absolutely! Let's not forget that the union that God intended for a man and a woman was to be intmate between the two. Scripture tells of the marriage of a man and a woman as "The two becoming one flesh." You can't get any more intimate than that! It's funny how we've come to describe sex between two people, married or unmarried as "Intimcy." Where the sexual "Intimate" relationship between a man and a woman was reserved by God for marriage, we've missed the mark entirely. It's not just modern pop culture that's bastardized this gift either. What do we have in common with king David, one of the heroes of the Bible? David also engaged in sexual immorality. In fact, David went so far as to send the husband of Bathsheba into battle to be killed. Can we take heart in the fact that so many christians have fallen victim to pornography? Perhaps, but that doesn't make it right in Gods eyes. Sin is sin. Ok, many of you will say that sexual sin has no victims.
87% said that their partners online cheating (by pornography or other means on the internet) had a negative effect on their relationship. 41% called their partners online cheating significant, while 35% said it caused an end to the relationship.
From a survey taken by Robert Weiss, a counselor who works with sex addiction.
Huffpost, January 7, 2015
Still hold fast to your belief that pornography is a victimless sin? 87% of people reported that their partners engaement in pornographhy had a NEGATIVE effect on their relationship! I have a good idea why, pornography creates false intimacy. This is a no brainer, if your addicted to porn, you're devoting the attention reserved for your spouse to a image! Once again, I have first hand knowledge of this. My parents were divorced when I was 7 years old because my mother could not live with my fathers infidelity. This was back in the 1970's, long before Al Gore invented the internet! So, even before the information age brought pornography to every computer, PDA and smart phone, pornography was easily available. Playboy and Penthouse magazine have become American icons for being the first exposure of pornography to millions of young men! Indeed, my first exposure to pornography was my brothers Playboy collection. Like that first taste of herion, cocaine or meth, I was hooked. It's something I struggle with to this day. Sound victimless to you? My friend Dennis recently gave me some advice on handling this demon. When tempted to view pornography, ask Jesus if he wants to look at this. See, Galations 2:20 tells us that "Christ lives in me." So, if we have been crucified with our risen Lord and he lives in us, what we see...Jesus sees. I'll jump out on a limb and say here that I don't think Jesus wants to look at our pornography. Do we want our Jesus to look at pornography? Do you think God is grieved when we view pornography? I'll say this, I miss my dad and the relationship I never had with him. I'm sure he thought his infidelity had no victims as well.
~Scott~
1 Corinthians 6: 16-20 NKJV
According to a recent survey, 64% of American men view pornography at least monthly. The percentage of christian men is nearly the same at 79%. 58% of men claimed that they believed viewing pornography was wrong, while 56% claimed to have tried to stop but couldn't. So, over half of American men know that viewing pornography is wrong but could not stop indulging in it. Sound like an addiction to you? I would view knowing something is wrong but being unable to stop as an addiction. I should know, I was one of those guys who was addicted to pornography. As with any drug, this addiction is not overcome easily even when it is. Do I still struggle with this demon? Absolutely! Let's not forget that the union that God intended for a man and a woman was to be intmate between the two. Scripture tells of the marriage of a man and a woman as "The two becoming one flesh." You can't get any more intimate than that! It's funny how we've come to describe sex between two people, married or unmarried as "Intimcy." Where the sexual "Intimate" relationship between a man and a woman was reserved by God for marriage, we've missed the mark entirely. It's not just modern pop culture that's bastardized this gift either. What do we have in common with king David, one of the heroes of the Bible? David also engaged in sexual immorality. In fact, David went so far as to send the husband of Bathsheba into battle to be killed. Can we take heart in the fact that so many christians have fallen victim to pornography? Perhaps, but that doesn't make it right in Gods eyes. Sin is sin. Ok, many of you will say that sexual sin has no victims.
87% said that their partners online cheating (by pornography or other means on the internet) had a negative effect on their relationship. 41% called their partners online cheating significant, while 35% said it caused an end to the relationship.
From a survey taken by Robert Weiss, a counselor who works with sex addiction.
Huffpost, January 7, 2015
Still hold fast to your belief that pornography is a victimless sin? 87% of people reported that their partners engaement in pornographhy had a NEGATIVE effect on their relationship! I have a good idea why, pornography creates false intimacy. This is a no brainer, if your addicted to porn, you're devoting the attention reserved for your spouse to a image! Once again, I have first hand knowledge of this. My parents were divorced when I was 7 years old because my mother could not live with my fathers infidelity. This was back in the 1970's, long before Al Gore invented the internet! So, even before the information age brought pornography to every computer, PDA and smart phone, pornography was easily available. Playboy and Penthouse magazine have become American icons for being the first exposure of pornography to millions of young men! Indeed, my first exposure to pornography was my brothers Playboy collection. Like that first taste of herion, cocaine or meth, I was hooked. It's something I struggle with to this day. Sound victimless to you? My friend Dennis recently gave me some advice on handling this demon. When tempted to view pornography, ask Jesus if he wants to look at this. See, Galations 2:20 tells us that "Christ lives in me." So, if we have been crucified with our risen Lord and he lives in us, what we see...Jesus sees. I'll jump out on a limb and say here that I don't think Jesus wants to look at our pornography. Do we want our Jesus to look at pornography? Do you think God is grieved when we view pornography? I'll say this, I miss my dad and the relationship I never had with him. I'm sure he thought his infidelity had no victims as well.
~Scott~
Wednesday, August 26, 2015
The Way
Jesus said to him, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the father except through me.
John 14:6 NKJV
Throughout scripture, we are told of only one way to salvation with Our Lord. That path is through the man Jesus. The only way someone could do the duty of saving himself and entering Gods presence is to live a completely sinless life as Jesus did. Knowing the eternal state of mankind, I don't see that happening anytime soon. See, sin and God don't mesh too well together. In fact, I'd venture to say that sin has NO place in Gods holy presence. However, we have a high priest and advocate in Jesus through whom we have access to our heavenly father. A simple look into our history will show that shortly after the creation of the world Gods most prized creation, man, was expelled from Gods presence. Genesis gives us a look into the daily life Adam and Eve shared with God in the garden. God creates the creatures of the earth, then brings them to Adam to be named. Then, when a suitable helper for Adam could not be found, God created Eve from the flesh of Adam. So it was early on, God in close relationship with his creation. That all came to a screeching halt, however, when temptation and sin entered this perfect world. As I mentioned, sin and God cannot be in the same vicinity. So, Adam and Eve are removed from that close relationship with God and removed from the garden. How painful must this have been for God, removing his children from his presence? We don't focus too much on this event from Gods perspective, but I'm sure it grieved God. Enter Jesus, with the sole purpose of reestablishing that relationship severed so long ago. With his death on the cross, Jesus once again brought Gods children into the fathers presence.
~Scott~
John 14:6 NKJV
Throughout scripture, we are told of only one way to salvation with Our Lord. That path is through the man Jesus. The only way someone could do the duty of saving himself and entering Gods presence is to live a completely sinless life as Jesus did. Knowing the eternal state of mankind, I don't see that happening anytime soon. See, sin and God don't mesh too well together. In fact, I'd venture to say that sin has NO place in Gods holy presence. However, we have a high priest and advocate in Jesus through whom we have access to our heavenly father. A simple look into our history will show that shortly after the creation of the world Gods most prized creation, man, was expelled from Gods presence. Genesis gives us a look into the daily life Adam and Eve shared with God in the garden. God creates the creatures of the earth, then brings them to Adam to be named. Then, when a suitable helper for Adam could not be found, God created Eve from the flesh of Adam. So it was early on, God in close relationship with his creation. That all came to a screeching halt, however, when temptation and sin entered this perfect world. As I mentioned, sin and God cannot be in the same vicinity. So, Adam and Eve are removed from that close relationship with God and removed from the garden. How painful must this have been for God, removing his children from his presence? We don't focus too much on this event from Gods perspective, but I'm sure it grieved God. Enter Jesus, with the sole purpose of reestablishing that relationship severed so long ago. With his death on the cross, Jesus once again brought Gods children into the fathers presence.
~Scott~
Jesus...our choice?
And if it seems evil to you to choose the LORD, choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the river, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD."
Joshua 24:15 NKJV
Joshua was drawing a proverbial line in the sand for the Isrealites. He had reminded them how the Lord had blessed them from his servant Abraham, through the exodus from Egypt all the way to the land they were residing in. Joshua asks the Isrealites to make a covenant to honor God. God had blessed the Isrealites even though they had strayed from him. Now, Joshua asked them to once again commit to following the Lord. The Isrealites responded with a YES! Of course, we know that Isrealites continued to stray, and God continued to be merciful and patient with them. God never puts us in a position where he demands that we follow him, he wants us to choose him willingly.
Just as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before him in love, having predestined us to adoption as sons of Christ to himself, according to the good pleasure of his will.
Ephesians 1: 4-5
Predestination is the doctrine that God, with knowledge of all things, chose those people who would follow him, and thus, those who would perish. From the Greek word Proorizo, which is defined as "dtermine beforehand," "ordain","to decide ahead of time." Ephesians 1:4-5 would seem to solidify this thought. Could the creator of all the universe actually have knowledge beforehand of evrything he intended to accomplish? Yes, that seems like a question with a obvious answer. However, there are people who get upset that, along with predestination, comes the knowledge that God ordained those who would fall away from him as well. I have no problem in the belief that God, in his mercy and grace, chooses who he will call to himself. Something else this eliminates is the human belief that if we work hard enough, we can punch our ticket to heaven. Yes, but the scripture is also clear that our efforts alone will not produce our salvation. Our salvation is not in our hands, that's Gods department. So, it's my guess we're not in control of our own destinies after all.
Joshua 24:15 NKJV
Joshua was drawing a proverbial line in the sand for the Isrealites. He had reminded them how the Lord had blessed them from his servant Abraham, through the exodus from Egypt all the way to the land they were residing in. Joshua asks the Isrealites to make a covenant to honor God. God had blessed the Isrealites even though they had strayed from him. Now, Joshua asked them to once again commit to following the Lord. The Isrealites responded with a YES! Of course, we know that Isrealites continued to stray, and God continued to be merciful and patient with them. God never puts us in a position where he demands that we follow him, he wants us to choose him willingly.
Just as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before him in love, having predestined us to adoption as sons of Christ to himself, according to the good pleasure of his will.
Ephesians 1: 4-5
Predestination is the doctrine that God, with knowledge of all things, chose those people who would follow him, and thus, those who would perish. From the Greek word Proorizo, which is defined as "dtermine beforehand," "ordain","to decide ahead of time." Ephesians 1:4-5 would seem to solidify this thought. Could the creator of all the universe actually have knowledge beforehand of evrything he intended to accomplish? Yes, that seems like a question with a obvious answer. However, there are people who get upset that, along with predestination, comes the knowledge that God ordained those who would fall away from him as well. I have no problem in the belief that God, in his mercy and grace, chooses who he will call to himself. Something else this eliminates is the human belief that if we work hard enough, we can punch our ticket to heaven. Yes, but the scripture is also clear that our efforts alone will not produce our salvation. Our salvation is not in our hands, that's Gods department. So, it's my guess we're not in control of our own destinies after all.
Tuesday, August 25, 2015
Who Am I?
"I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me."
Galations 2:20 NKJV
This verse, from the Apostle Paul in Galations, has been one of the hardest ideas for me to get a hold of. However, it is also essential to how I see myself as a whole. Jesus was crucified and died for my sins, this much I know and believe in my heart. Yes, even the resurected Son of God. But the resurected Christ living in me? This WAS NOT easy for me to believe. We must ask, would Paul make such a statement if he did not believe it to be true? Can we wholeheartedly make the claim that within our earthbound bodies, Jesus lives within us?
Or do you not know that your body is the Temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are Gods.
1 Corinthians 6:19 NKJV
The temple of the Holy Spirit...you and I? Indeed we have been purchased, and the blood of Christ was the price that was paid for us. In fact, it is concievable that God holds the ownwership papers for all that we are. How else could we explain Pauls expression of "For you were bought at a price?" I guess Paul understood that the price Jesus paid for us all, shedding his blood for mankind, transfered ownership of our bodies to God. But, if we are "under new ownership", who was the previous owner? Well, I'm thinking it had something to do with the Garden of Eden and the fall of man. See, before that initial sin, mankind enjoyed a joyous relationship with his creator. However, once satan tempted Eve into sin, that all changed. Man went from the good times in the garden, to a life seperate from God. Once that happened, ownership for Gods children was instilled on satan. With Christs unselfish sacrafice, that ownership was transfered once again. Paul encourages us in 1 Corinthians 6:19 to rejoice in Gods victory and our deliverance unto our "Original Owner."
Galations 2:20 NKJV
This verse, from the Apostle Paul in Galations, has been one of the hardest ideas for me to get a hold of. However, it is also essential to how I see myself as a whole. Jesus was crucified and died for my sins, this much I know and believe in my heart. Yes, even the resurected Son of God. But the resurected Christ living in me? This WAS NOT easy for me to believe. We must ask, would Paul make such a statement if he did not believe it to be true? Can we wholeheartedly make the claim that within our earthbound bodies, Jesus lives within us?
Or do you not know that your body is the Temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are Gods.
1 Corinthians 6:19 NKJV
The temple of the Holy Spirit...you and I? Indeed we have been purchased, and the blood of Christ was the price that was paid for us. In fact, it is concievable that God holds the ownwership papers for all that we are. How else could we explain Pauls expression of "For you were bought at a price?" I guess Paul understood that the price Jesus paid for us all, shedding his blood for mankind, transfered ownership of our bodies to God. But, if we are "under new ownership", who was the previous owner? Well, I'm thinking it had something to do with the Garden of Eden and the fall of man. See, before that initial sin, mankind enjoyed a joyous relationship with his creator. However, once satan tempted Eve into sin, that all changed. Man went from the good times in the garden, to a life seperate from God. Once that happened, ownership for Gods children was instilled on satan. With Christs unselfish sacrafice, that ownership was transfered once again. Paul encourages us in 1 Corinthians 6:19 to rejoice in Gods victory and our deliverance unto our "Original Owner."
Sunday, August 23, 2015
Who Is Jesus?
This is a question my friend David has asked me more than a few times. Who is Jesus? Most christians would, as I did, rattle off a few automatic answers. Jesus is the Son of God, the risen savior, Gods ordained child and a part of the holy trinity. All of this is true, but who did the people of Jesus' day say that he was? We know that that the Jewish religious leaders of that time were at odds with Jesus because of his teachings. We can look at this two ways, who the people thought Jesus was and who the disciples who walked with him daily thought he was.
And immediately Jesus stretched out his hand and caught him, and said to him, 'O you of llittle faith, why did you doubt?" And when they got into the boat, the wind ceased. Then those who were in the boat came and worshipped him, saying, "truly you are the son of God."
Matthew 14: 31-33 NKJV
Here comes that inevitable answer, it's easy to claim someones greatness in the face of a miracle being performed. Sure, if I fell off of a cliff and someone jumped off and saved us both from death I'd sure be convinced of their greatness! But there must be something more to this equation. If Jesus had not performed one miracle in the presence of those who surrounded him, his stature as the son of God would remain, so the miracles he peformed do not define him. It's silly to think that the people Jesus walked with every day only believed in him due to the miracles he performed among them. The Jews of Jesus' day knew the scriptures (The Jewish Tanakh) so they knew of Gods promise to send a savior to Gods chosen people. However, they may have been blindsided by thinking that Gods messiah would come to deliver them from the opressive Roman government that ruled over them at the time. A mighty military leader, such as king David, to run the hated Romans out of Isreal. They never thought that Gods plan was for the redemption of all mankind, not just Isreal.
We have the advantage of having history and the word of God to guide us as to who Jesus really is. Yes, there are those today who, like people in Jesus' time, deny that he is the risen Son of God. For me, one of the verses that solidifies Jesus' place in my life comes from the book of Luke.
But they found the stone rolled away from the tomb. Then they went in and did not find the body of the Lord Jesus. And it happened, as they were greatly perplexed about this, that behold, two men stood by them in shining garments. Then, as they were afraid and bowed their faces to the earth, they said to them, "Why do you seek the living among the dead? "He is not here, but is risen! Remember how he spoke to you while he was still in Galilee, "saying, 'The son of man must be delivered into the hands of sinful men, and be crucified, and the third day rise again.' " And they remembered his words.
Luke 24: 2-8 NKJV
Jesus had just been crucified, and these women had been witness to it. Now, they were being told that he was alive! Yet another scripture that jumps out at me comes from Galations..
"I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.
Galations 2:20 NKJV
The author, the apostle Paul, had never met Jesus until his encounter on the road to Damascus. In fact, Saul had been one of the leading persecutors of the new church. After Sauls encounter with Jesus on that Damascus road, he preached the news of the risen Christ. A intervention of sorts. Imagine one of the most vocal critics of Jesus suddenly proclaiming his holiness. Something happened there.
So, in answer to that ages old question, who is Jesus? Jesus IS the risen Son of God. Jesus is Gods perfect sacrafice to redeem all of mankind. When he was nailed to that cross and died, he bore my sins with him. Jesus is ALIVE and in me even today! I strive to strengthen my relationship with him, just as I would any dear friend :)
~Scott~
And immediately Jesus stretched out his hand and caught him, and said to him, 'O you of llittle faith, why did you doubt?" And when they got into the boat, the wind ceased. Then those who were in the boat came and worshipped him, saying, "truly you are the son of God."
Matthew 14: 31-33 NKJV
Here comes that inevitable answer, it's easy to claim someones greatness in the face of a miracle being performed. Sure, if I fell off of a cliff and someone jumped off and saved us both from death I'd sure be convinced of their greatness! But there must be something more to this equation. If Jesus had not performed one miracle in the presence of those who surrounded him, his stature as the son of God would remain, so the miracles he peformed do not define him. It's silly to think that the people Jesus walked with every day only believed in him due to the miracles he performed among them. The Jews of Jesus' day knew the scriptures (The Jewish Tanakh) so they knew of Gods promise to send a savior to Gods chosen people. However, they may have been blindsided by thinking that Gods messiah would come to deliver them from the opressive Roman government that ruled over them at the time. A mighty military leader, such as king David, to run the hated Romans out of Isreal. They never thought that Gods plan was for the redemption of all mankind, not just Isreal.
We have the advantage of having history and the word of God to guide us as to who Jesus really is. Yes, there are those today who, like people in Jesus' time, deny that he is the risen Son of God. For me, one of the verses that solidifies Jesus' place in my life comes from the book of Luke.
But they found the stone rolled away from the tomb. Then they went in and did not find the body of the Lord Jesus. And it happened, as they were greatly perplexed about this, that behold, two men stood by them in shining garments. Then, as they were afraid and bowed their faces to the earth, they said to them, "Why do you seek the living among the dead? "He is not here, but is risen! Remember how he spoke to you while he was still in Galilee, "saying, 'The son of man must be delivered into the hands of sinful men, and be crucified, and the third day rise again.' " And they remembered his words.
Luke 24: 2-8 NKJV
Jesus had just been crucified, and these women had been witness to it. Now, they were being told that he was alive! Yet another scripture that jumps out at me comes from Galations..
"I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.
Galations 2:20 NKJV
The author, the apostle Paul, had never met Jesus until his encounter on the road to Damascus. In fact, Saul had been one of the leading persecutors of the new church. After Sauls encounter with Jesus on that Damascus road, he preached the news of the risen Christ. A intervention of sorts. Imagine one of the most vocal critics of Jesus suddenly proclaiming his holiness. Something happened there.
So, in answer to that ages old question, who is Jesus? Jesus IS the risen Son of God. Jesus is Gods perfect sacrafice to redeem all of mankind. When he was nailed to that cross and died, he bore my sins with him. Jesus is ALIVE and in me even today! I strive to strengthen my relationship with him, just as I would any dear friend :)
~Scott~
Freedom?
"Beware lest anyone cheat you through philosophy and empty deceit, according to the tradition of men, according to the basic principles of the world, and not according to Christ. For in him dwells all the fullness of the Godhead bodily, and you are complete in him, who is head of all principality and power"
Colossions 2: 8-10
Sunday mornings used to be pretty rushed for me. There was church, mens groups, fellowship and all of the activities that Sunday church worship brings. However, lately I've put alot less effort into attending church on a regular basis. I know that I'll more than likely get some diagreement from those who feel that "good" christians should adhere to the weekly gathering of believers. Things happened in my life over the past few years, and church attendance became less important. Am I still a christian? Yes! Do I still follow Jesus and strive to have a relationship with him? Absolutely. I just feel that I can have a relationship with Jesus without being commited to following a weekly tradition. Tradition you say? Well, besides Hebrews 10:25, my search has not revealed where Gods word REQUIRES us to attend a certain church or a weekly worship service.
"Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, exhorting one another, and so much more as you see the day approaching"
Hebrews 2:10 NKJV
Notice that verse..."As is the manner of some" Clearly, the Apostle Paul was encouraging believers to gather together in fellowship. However, fellowship and mandatory attendance are worlds apart. Does God require that we attend a certain church or church group? I haven't seen any evidence of that. However, I've come across many churches who will use guilt in order to keep people coming in the door. THAT is not from God. Does Hebrews 10 tell us to gather together? Absolutely but, again, gathering together and guilting someone into church attendance are two completely different scenarios. As I've mentioned, I've spent alot of time this summer hiking and in fellowship with my goood friend pastor Dennis. Each time we get together is another good conversation on our relationship with Christ. I've learned alot from Dennis, more than I have in all the churches I've been in. I am not missing out on fellowship nor am I forsaking my worship of God, we do it all. Now, one good reason for church attendance, as my good and wise friend David has brought up to me, is to fellowship with even more people. You see, being isolated is never a good thing. This is something I'm working on improving. So, from where I stand, church attendance is not a mandatory requirement sent forth from God. If I fail to attend Sunday worship, God will not withhold his love from me. I don't believe that, as he died on that cross, Jesus' first thought was "Father, I hope they attend church!" I will go so far as to say that church attendance is a tradition of man. Yes, I'll catch some grief for that I'm sure. Along with other man made traditions (Tithing as the modern church sees it, communion) I think we've missed the mark on a few things. By not being guilted into attending a certain service, but worshiping God and drawing near to him exactly where I am, I feel a sense of freedom. Not tied down to a man made tradition that seeks to put me to shame if I don't adhere to it. Now, I understand that for a variety of reasons churches today need to keep a steady flow of people coming through the doors on Sunday mornings, but that's another discussion AND another future post :) For now, I'll enjoy the freedom I have in knowing that I serve a loving and merciful God who will never put me to shame for not gathering in a certain building :)
~Scott~
Colossions 2: 8-10
Sunday mornings used to be pretty rushed for me. There was church, mens groups, fellowship and all of the activities that Sunday church worship brings. However, lately I've put alot less effort into attending church on a regular basis. I know that I'll more than likely get some diagreement from those who feel that "good" christians should adhere to the weekly gathering of believers. Things happened in my life over the past few years, and church attendance became less important. Am I still a christian? Yes! Do I still follow Jesus and strive to have a relationship with him? Absolutely. I just feel that I can have a relationship with Jesus without being commited to following a weekly tradition. Tradition you say? Well, besides Hebrews 10:25, my search has not revealed where Gods word REQUIRES us to attend a certain church or a weekly worship service.
"Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, exhorting one another, and so much more as you see the day approaching"
Hebrews 2:10 NKJV
Notice that verse..."As is the manner of some" Clearly, the Apostle Paul was encouraging believers to gather together in fellowship. However, fellowship and mandatory attendance are worlds apart. Does God require that we attend a certain church or church group? I haven't seen any evidence of that. However, I've come across many churches who will use guilt in order to keep people coming in the door. THAT is not from God. Does Hebrews 10 tell us to gather together? Absolutely but, again, gathering together and guilting someone into church attendance are two completely different scenarios. As I've mentioned, I've spent alot of time this summer hiking and in fellowship with my goood friend pastor Dennis. Each time we get together is another good conversation on our relationship with Christ. I've learned alot from Dennis, more than I have in all the churches I've been in. I am not missing out on fellowship nor am I forsaking my worship of God, we do it all. Now, one good reason for church attendance, as my good and wise friend David has brought up to me, is to fellowship with even more people. You see, being isolated is never a good thing. This is something I'm working on improving. So, from where I stand, church attendance is not a mandatory requirement sent forth from God. If I fail to attend Sunday worship, God will not withhold his love from me. I don't believe that, as he died on that cross, Jesus' first thought was "Father, I hope they attend church!" I will go so far as to say that church attendance is a tradition of man. Yes, I'll catch some grief for that I'm sure. Along with other man made traditions (Tithing as the modern church sees it, communion) I think we've missed the mark on a few things. By not being guilted into attending a certain service, but worshiping God and drawing near to him exactly where I am, I feel a sense of freedom. Not tied down to a man made tradition that seeks to put me to shame if I don't adhere to it. Now, I understand that for a variety of reasons churches today need to keep a steady flow of people coming through the doors on Sunday mornings, but that's another discussion AND another future post :) For now, I'll enjoy the freedom I have in knowing that I serve a loving and merciful God who will never put me to shame for not gathering in a certain building :)
~Scott~
Saturday, August 22, 2015
Being Accountable
There's been alot of mention for a good number of years about the value of a accountability relationship with a fellow christian or group thereof. In fact, I've even been down this road more than a few times. Without fail, each time I trusted another christian friend with the task of seeing if I "measured up" to Gods plan and will it inevitably left me feeling worse than I did going in. Why is that? Well, I'm feeling that my focus was that I was attempting to comply with things that are not attainable by mankind. The fact that each time I failed, I feared the condemnation and guilt that came from revealing my shortcomings to another person. As we know, each time we plan on attaining perfection to please God, WE WILL fail! Part of the issue is that we do not realize that God does NOT condem us, he's not sitting back on his throne of grace just waiting for us to sin so that he can say...AHH HA! If this were the case, then all that scripture about God sending his son to die for our sins would be a massive contradiction, and God is not into that kind of thing. I've come to realize that having a relationship with Christ is preferable to having a accountability relationship with a fellow christian. Don't get me wrong, I think it's a good thing to have healthy relationships with fellow believers, but I wouldn't classify a accountability relationship as healthy. Here's why, as I've said, when I was in a accountability relationship I dreaded the moment where I would have to spill my guts and admit my shortcomings. Nothing scared me more than having to admit that I had fallen short as a man. As a result, I more than often ommited things I was afraid to mention and kept them to myself. Does that sound helpful for spiritual growth to you? Me either. The entire premise of a accountability relationship seems to be to shame someone into submission, and this IS NOT from a loving God! Am I crazy? Take a look at a simulated accountability relationship meeting (Names have been changed to protect the innocent)
Sinner ~ "I've had a rough week...been dealing with alot"
The Man~ "I'm sorry to hear that sinner, were you reading your bible as much as you could?"
Sinner~ "Ummm, not realy"
The Man~ "REALLY? You know, God helps those who helps themselves"
Sinner~ "...But"
The Man~ "God DOES NOT tolerate sin sinner, YOU KNOW THIS! You're lucky God has brought us together so I can tell you that!"
Sound like a productive and healthy relationship? Now, don't confuse a accountability relationship with the healthy fellowship we can share with a christian friend. I've spent alot of time this summer with my good friend Dennis as we've hiked and dined and fellowshipped enjoying each others company and Christ. I've learned more from my time with Dennis than I have in many years of church sermons. Which is strange, because Dennis is a pastor :) I believe that a healthy fellowship with fellow christian(s) is essential in our spiritual growth. Any relationship that is based on guilt and shame, as many accountability relationships are, cannot be productive to anyone. Now, as a good friend has told me "I've told you a million times never to exaggerate", Im sure there are a few accountability relationships out there that have somehow been succesful. For a accountability relationship to be effective, IT MUST be based on trust. I'm not going to sit across from someone and spill my guts of all my shortcomings if I don't trust that person I'm talking to. Also, if that person is trying to guilt and shame me into complying, I'll more than likely terminate that relationship. Is that wrong thinking? Well, consider the interactions Jesus had with sinners, and there were more than a few. The woman at the well, the adultress about to be stoned and the greedy tax collector. Let's not forget the man who was crucified right beside Jesus..."Today, you shall be with me in paradise" Do any of these interactions sound like Jesus was trying to guilt or shame the people he was speaking with? Take a look at the simulated conversation above and ask yourself if Jesus would have handled that situation in the same way. Above all, I believe that we can show the the love and compassion of Christ in all of our relationships. Yes, I'm still working on that one too. I'll take a relationship based on fellowship, love and compassion over guilt and shame any day :)
~Scott~
Sinner ~ "I've had a rough week...been dealing with alot"
The Man~ "I'm sorry to hear that sinner, were you reading your bible as much as you could?"
Sinner~ "Ummm, not realy"
The Man~ "REALLY? You know, God helps those who helps themselves"
Sinner~ "...But"
The Man~ "God DOES NOT tolerate sin sinner, YOU KNOW THIS! You're lucky God has brought us together so I can tell you that!"
Sound like a productive and healthy relationship? Now, don't confuse a accountability relationship with the healthy fellowship we can share with a christian friend. I've spent alot of time this summer with my good friend Dennis as we've hiked and dined and fellowshipped enjoying each others company and Christ. I've learned more from my time with Dennis than I have in many years of church sermons. Which is strange, because Dennis is a pastor :) I believe that a healthy fellowship with fellow christian(s) is essential in our spiritual growth. Any relationship that is based on guilt and shame, as many accountability relationships are, cannot be productive to anyone. Now, as a good friend has told me "I've told you a million times never to exaggerate", Im sure there are a few accountability relationships out there that have somehow been succesful. For a accountability relationship to be effective, IT MUST be based on trust. I'm not going to sit across from someone and spill my guts of all my shortcomings if I don't trust that person I'm talking to. Also, if that person is trying to guilt and shame me into complying, I'll more than likely terminate that relationship. Is that wrong thinking? Well, consider the interactions Jesus had with sinners, and there were more than a few. The woman at the well, the adultress about to be stoned and the greedy tax collector. Let's not forget the man who was crucified right beside Jesus..."Today, you shall be with me in paradise" Do any of these interactions sound like Jesus was trying to guilt or shame the people he was speaking with? Take a look at the simulated conversation above and ask yourself if Jesus would have handled that situation in the same way. Above all, I believe that we can show the the love and compassion of Christ in all of our relationships. Yes, I'm still working on that one too. I'll take a relationship based on fellowship, love and compassion over guilt and shame any day :)
~Scott~
Our Perfect Defense
"I am the LORD your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage. You shall have no other Gods before me".
Exodus 20: 2-3
With these words spoken to Moses, God set forth the rules that his chosen peoople, the Isrealites, were to follow. The Isrealites, seeing Gods awesome power on that day, refused to speak with the Lord who had just delivered them out of bondage, but pleaded with Moses to relay Gods message. So God delivered, giving Moses the commandments (not merely suggestions) that the Isrealites were to follow. It didn't take the people long, however, to violate even that first commandment. As Moses was decending Mount Siani with the commands given to him by the God of his people, down below the people, impatient that Moses would not return from that mountain, took matters into their own hands and made a God of their very own! Understandably, God was displeased, as the Isrealites soon discovered. We think of the ten commandments as "The Law" given to Isreal by God, and it was. However, the people added to those commandments until "The Law" had become over 200 edicts. Everything from hand washing to sacrafices was ultimately included in "The Law".
"For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stuumbles at just one point is guilty of breaking all of it"
James 2:10 NIV
Seem like a tough act to follow? Seeing that we are all born sin, I'd say YES. However, these were Gods commandments, mostly. Did the law provide for the forgiveness and removal of the inevitable sins that mankind would commit? Well, in a symbolic way, but never completely. Enter Gods perfect plan for mankinds redemption. In perfect fashion, God provided a savior not only to his chosen people, but to all mankind. The son of a Jewish carpenter would become Gods one and only perfect sacrafice. By his death on the cross, Christ bore the iniquities of all mankind. The sacrafice has been made, it's a done deal! But what about "The Law" that provided for the ceremonial removal of the sins of Gods people, what happened to those requirements?
"And you, being dead in your trespasses and the uncircumcision of your flesh, He has made alive together with him, having forgiven you all trespasses, having wiped out the handwriting of requirements that was against us, which was contrary to us. And he has taken it out of the way, having nailed it to the cross. Having disarmed principalities and powers, He made a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them in it".
Colossians 2: 13-15
Does it sound like the law is still with us? With the death of Christ, the law died with him, according to Gods perfect plan. So, as Christ suffered and was nailed to that cross, he bore ALL of our sins with him. That means past, present AND future. As Christ himself claimed as he died...IT IS FINISHED! Granted, we'll still sin and will continue to do so. But rest assured, God has provided for our complete forgiveness.
Exodus 20: 2-3
With these words spoken to Moses, God set forth the rules that his chosen peoople, the Isrealites, were to follow. The Isrealites, seeing Gods awesome power on that day, refused to speak with the Lord who had just delivered them out of bondage, but pleaded with Moses to relay Gods message. So God delivered, giving Moses the commandments (not merely suggestions) that the Isrealites were to follow. It didn't take the people long, however, to violate even that first commandment. As Moses was decending Mount Siani with the commands given to him by the God of his people, down below the people, impatient that Moses would not return from that mountain, took matters into their own hands and made a God of their very own! Understandably, God was displeased, as the Isrealites soon discovered. We think of the ten commandments as "The Law" given to Isreal by God, and it was. However, the people added to those commandments until "The Law" had become over 200 edicts. Everything from hand washing to sacrafices was ultimately included in "The Law".
"For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stuumbles at just one point is guilty of breaking all of it"
James 2:10 NIV
Seem like a tough act to follow? Seeing that we are all born sin, I'd say YES. However, these were Gods commandments, mostly. Did the law provide for the forgiveness and removal of the inevitable sins that mankind would commit? Well, in a symbolic way, but never completely. Enter Gods perfect plan for mankinds redemption. In perfect fashion, God provided a savior not only to his chosen people, but to all mankind. The son of a Jewish carpenter would become Gods one and only perfect sacrafice. By his death on the cross, Christ bore the iniquities of all mankind. The sacrafice has been made, it's a done deal! But what about "The Law" that provided for the ceremonial removal of the sins of Gods people, what happened to those requirements?
"And you, being dead in your trespasses and the uncircumcision of your flesh, He has made alive together with him, having forgiven you all trespasses, having wiped out the handwriting of requirements that was against us, which was contrary to us. And he has taken it out of the way, having nailed it to the cross. Having disarmed principalities and powers, He made a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them in it".
Colossians 2: 13-15
Does it sound like the law is still with us? With the death of Christ, the law died with him, according to Gods perfect plan. So, as Christ suffered and was nailed to that cross, he bore ALL of our sins with him. That means past, present AND future. As Christ himself claimed as he died...IT IS FINISHED! Granted, we'll still sin and will continue to do so. But rest assured, God has provided for our complete forgiveness.
Friday, August 21, 2015
Relationship
It's been my experience this past year to learn more of and about my relationship with Christ than ever before. I've often wondered what it would be like to return to the time where mankind shared a intimate relationship with God before the fall. Imagine walking through the garden and enjoying a intimate conversation with your creator just as easy as if you and I were to talk with one another. I believe in my heart that this is one of the reasons God preordained the arrival of Christ on earth, to restore that relationship with his creation that he enjoyed so long ago. Like a parent lamenting the loss of a relationship with a wayward child, God desires us to return to him once again. For most of us, getting to that point of intimate relationship with God is a tough process. Let me assure you, there is nothing that we can do to earn Gods favor. Scripture makes it clear that our salvation is "Not by works, but by Gods loving grace" For by grace we have been saved! So, God loved each and every one of us so much, that despite our sin nature which goes totaly against heavenly father, he sent his son to suffer and die for each and every one of us. How many of us would suffer as Christ did for even one man? One of my favorite illustrations of Gods love for us is Jesus' story of the prodigal son. I've often used this illustration with others to point out the level of love God has for us. This son, this boy, comes to his wealthy father one day and declares "Dad, please give me my share of my inheritance, it's time for me to hit the road and experience life on my own" If any of you are parents, this may sound like a familiar story. When I was younger (not that I'm old) I often pushed my moms buttons as I strived for freedom and independance. I'd experienced life under moms wings and naturaly I wanted to see what it was like on my own. Anyway, so the wealthy father relents and gives his son his inheritance. Long story short, the young man ends up squandering his inheritance and ends up working in a literal pig pen! One day, fed up with his existance of poverty, the young man decides to return home to his fathers house and ask to work as a hired hand, realizing that his fathers servants live better than he is. I'm sure the young man expected his father to be angry, who wouldn't? Here's where the story takes a twist, and why it is such a wonderful illustration of Gods enduring love. See, long before the son reaches his fathers house, his father sees him approaching and RUNS to greet him with a kiss! See, dad had been waiting the return of his son since he left home! So great is the fathers joy that he adorns his long lost son with new clothes and orders a feast in his honor to celebrate his son who "was lost but now is found!" If you're familiar with this story i'm sure you've seen the symbolism many times. Though we wander and stray, God is NEVER angry enough to reject us when we return to him. In fact, he awaits our return with love, grace and compassion for his beloved creaton. He yearns for us to return to the relationship he once enjoyed with his children. Sound like a angry God to you? We fail, we fall, we sin and we move against God and the entire time he awaits our return to him. I mentioned my attempts at finding my independence in my younger years, and they provided unique learning experiences for me. Being a single parent, my mom spent many sleepless nights praying for Gods love and protection over her own wayward children. Loooking back on what I've been through, I can see those times where God honored her prayers. It's funny, all those years I've spent trying to find a life of my own away from my moms influence, now I look to spend as much time as I can with her.
Sunday, August 16, 2015
Convicted by sin and saved by grace
"Oh! The rememberance of my great sins, of my great temptations, and of my great fear of perishing for ever! They bring afresh into my mind, the rememberance of my great help, my great supports from heaven, and the great grace that God extended to such a wretch as I."
~John Bunyan~
I usualy didn't think about it, I just assumed that each time I commited a sin, there I was pleading Gods forgiveness. To put that into a human perspective, just think of being hauled into court on a criminal offense. As the trial progresses, the judge suddenly stops the proceedings and declares "I see NO evidence to convict the accused, you're free to go" However, despite the judges grace, the accused stands before the judge who just set him free and pleads "Judge, PLEASE, have mercy on me!" Anyone see anything wrong here? I, we, fail to recognise that despite our best efforts to be good christian soldiers, we all fall short of the glory of God! The law of the Old Testament (Let's say "Old Covenant") put forth guidelines of what not to do, even rules for dealing with sin. I guess they realized the law itself wouldn't take away sins but merely make people know what was sin? Yet, the Old Covenant only provided a "temporary covering" of the sins of man.
"Indeed, under the law almost everything is purified with blood, and without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness of sins."
Hebrews 9:22 ESV
This scripture being important, seeing blood sacrafice as a condition for the forgiveness of mankinds sin. On the Day Of Atonement, the high priest was to take two male goats for a sin offering, one of the goats was sacraficed as a sin offering to the people of Isreal (Like most, I didn't fit into that catagory) So, what about that second goat? Well, the high priest would lay hands on the live goat and confess over it "All the iniquities of the people of Isreal." The second goat was then set free into the wilderness, symbolizing the removal of the sins of the Isrealites. So, I asked myself, if that second goat had the sins of the people of Isreal (NOT all mankind, mind you) placed upon it, if it was still alive how could we honestly say that the sins of the nation of Isreal had been removed if only a blood sacrafice could provide for that? It wasn't until Jesus arrived on the scene that this was accomplished.
The next day he saw Jesus coming towards him, and said, "Behold, the lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world!"
John 1:29 ESV
Remember that scripture that calling for the shedding of blood for forgiveness of sins? Well, here is Gods response to our sin issue. Jesus became the complete, final sacrafice required for the forgiveness of sins. Not just for the Isrealites, but for all mankind.
"And you, being dead in your trespasses and the uncircumcission of your flesh, He has made alive together with him, having forgiven you all trespesses. Having wiped out the handwriting of requirements that was against us, which was contrary to us. And he has taken it out of the way, having nailed it to the cross. Having disarmed principalities and powers, He made a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them in it."
Colossians 2:13-18 NKJV
Sounds to me like we don't need a goat to symbolize our removal of sins anymore. As is usually the case, Gods plans are better than ours. We no longer need to plead with the judge to have mercy on us in order to forgive our sins, that's been taken care of through Gods loving grace on all mankind.
~John Bunyan~
I usualy didn't think about it, I just assumed that each time I commited a sin, there I was pleading Gods forgiveness. To put that into a human perspective, just think of being hauled into court on a criminal offense. As the trial progresses, the judge suddenly stops the proceedings and declares "I see NO evidence to convict the accused, you're free to go" However, despite the judges grace, the accused stands before the judge who just set him free and pleads "Judge, PLEASE, have mercy on me!" Anyone see anything wrong here? I, we, fail to recognise that despite our best efforts to be good christian soldiers, we all fall short of the glory of God! The law of the Old Testament (Let's say "Old Covenant") put forth guidelines of what not to do, even rules for dealing with sin. I guess they realized the law itself wouldn't take away sins but merely make people know what was sin? Yet, the Old Covenant only provided a "temporary covering" of the sins of man.
"Indeed, under the law almost everything is purified with blood, and without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness of sins."
Hebrews 9:22 ESV
This scripture being important, seeing blood sacrafice as a condition for the forgiveness of mankinds sin. On the Day Of Atonement, the high priest was to take two male goats for a sin offering, one of the goats was sacraficed as a sin offering to the people of Isreal (Like most, I didn't fit into that catagory) So, what about that second goat? Well, the high priest would lay hands on the live goat and confess over it "All the iniquities of the people of Isreal." The second goat was then set free into the wilderness, symbolizing the removal of the sins of the Isrealites. So, I asked myself, if that second goat had the sins of the people of Isreal (NOT all mankind, mind you) placed upon it, if it was still alive how could we honestly say that the sins of the nation of Isreal had been removed if only a blood sacrafice could provide for that? It wasn't until Jesus arrived on the scene that this was accomplished.
The next day he saw Jesus coming towards him, and said, "Behold, the lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world!"
John 1:29 ESV
Remember that scripture that calling for the shedding of blood for forgiveness of sins? Well, here is Gods response to our sin issue. Jesus became the complete, final sacrafice required for the forgiveness of sins. Not just for the Isrealites, but for all mankind.
"And you, being dead in your trespasses and the uncircumcission of your flesh, He has made alive together with him, having forgiven you all trespesses. Having wiped out the handwriting of requirements that was against us, which was contrary to us. And he has taken it out of the way, having nailed it to the cross. Having disarmed principalities and powers, He made a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them in it."
Colossians 2:13-18 NKJV
Sounds to me like we don't need a goat to symbolize our removal of sins anymore. As is usually the case, Gods plans are better than ours. We no longer need to plead with the judge to have mercy on us in order to forgive our sins, that's been taken care of through Gods loving grace on all mankind.
Saturday, August 15, 2015
A Fathers Voice
Thinking back, I suppose it could be seen as abuse nowadays, but to me it was a awesome moment. I was riding with my dad in that old Chevy truck of his, the one I anxiously looked for each time he promised to visit. I was 10 years old and I was upset because my weekend with my dad was ending and he was driving me back home. I guess dad sensed that his youngest boy was upset, because he reached over to hug me and reasure me that he'd be back soon. Now, this may not seem like a big event in any family, but for me it was huge. You see, I was 10 years old, and this was the very first time that I can remember my dad hugging me. Whatever prompted him to show his affection at that moment wasn't important, as long as he did. He followed that up with something else I cannot recall him ever doing before that moment. My dad told me that he loved me. At that moment, nothing else mattered, I was my dads boy! Those words had a huge effect on me, and I still remember them today. Whenever my dad would fail to keep his promise to visit, which happened alot, I still knew in my heart that my dad loved me! I didn't learn until later the pain that my own father had growing up. I remember my grandfather cherishing the visits that my brother and I made to "Grandmas house", but his relationship with his own children was far from ideal. Grandpa was very strict and unemotional with my dad and his brothers, which may be where my dad developed his own behavior. By grandpa not showing the loving, caring fathers voice to his children, my dad learned the same behavior. Sure, we all have the freedom to choose our own actions, but what do you do when all you've ever known from your parents is distance, lack of affection and a harsh hand? If grandpa loved his children, he didn't show it. Fortunately, my mother had no issues showing her children love and affection. If not for her, I may have gone a different road in life. After my parents divorced, she made every effort to love and provide for my brother and myself. It was through her love and encouragement that I eventually came to accept Jesus as my Lord. I can remember my mom kneeling in prayer alot growing up, obviously asking for Gods help and guidance for raising such sweet, innocent boys :) I remember praying with mom during one of those times in my life when I was feeling discouraged. After praying for me she paused before finaly saying "Tell Scott that I love him." I have no doubt that God had led her to tell me this at that low point in my life. I'm blessed to have the memory that during two painful times in my life, I heard my fathers voice.
Those Pesky Minions
"Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour."
1 Peter 5:8 NKJV
Pastor Dennis recently related a story to me of a man living under the power of a tyranical Lord. One day, another more powerful Lord came and he destroyed the wicked ruler the man was living under. However, even after the wicked ruler was overthrown, he would send his minions into the castle of the new Lord and continue to tell its residents "Look, you may THINK you're under a new ruler but you're not!" It didn't take me long to see the meaning of what Dennis was trying to get across. Even though Satan has been defeated, he still directs his efforts against those who oppose him, namely those who are in Christ. Just like the evil Lord who was overthrown, Satans final destiny has been sealed long ago
"So the great dragon was cast out, the serpent of old, called the devil and Satan, who DECEIVES the whole world; he was cast to the earth, and his angels were cast out with him."
Looking back on Dennis' story, I came to another realization of the meaning.
"And war broke out in heaven: Micheal and his angels fought with the dragon; and the dragon and his angels fought, but they DID NOT prevail, nor was a place found for them in heaven any longer."
Revelation 12: 7-8 NKJV
See, the evil lord of the castle (Satan) fought against and was overthrown by the good Lord (God) Another key part of this scripture comes in verse 8..."nor was a place found for them in heaven any longer." So, knowing this, if we are indeed in Christ, then satan and his angels (minions) have no place in our final destination, God has expelled them! However, the battle is not over...
"For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places."
Ephesians 6:12 NKJV
Knowing his final fate and resting place, satan and his angels will continue to war against God and his elect. As my good friend Chuck has related to me on many occasions..."When satan reminds you of your past, remind him of his future!" For me, the "past" satan reminds me of are my past failures and fears. This summer Dennis and I have enjoyed many a hiking trip with fellowship and good discussion on our lord Christ. Now, my fear of heights has come roaring back on MANY of these occasions, the "minions" have continued to whispered in my ear "You're going to fall off the edge of that trail and die!" I can honestly say I'm getting better at dealing with these messages, with a little help from Dennis and his wisdom and teaching. Not that it's happened, but if something DID happen to me, would I need to worry about my final destination? Jesus Christ is in me, so I'm assured of a place in heaven by his side!
"I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the LIFE which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me."
Galations 2:20 NKJV
Yes, the messages from Satan and his minions will continue to be directed my way, that will not change. However, one thing that also WILL NEVER change is my fellowship and inheritance I share with Christ Jesus. By knowing that we now live in Christ, we can fight the messages from satan and his minions, because with Christ we have overcome this world!
1 Peter 5:8 NKJV
Pastor Dennis recently related a story to me of a man living under the power of a tyranical Lord. One day, another more powerful Lord came and he destroyed the wicked ruler the man was living under. However, even after the wicked ruler was overthrown, he would send his minions into the castle of the new Lord and continue to tell its residents "Look, you may THINK you're under a new ruler but you're not!" It didn't take me long to see the meaning of what Dennis was trying to get across. Even though Satan has been defeated, he still directs his efforts against those who oppose him, namely those who are in Christ. Just like the evil Lord who was overthrown, Satans final destiny has been sealed long ago
"So the great dragon was cast out, the serpent of old, called the devil and Satan, who DECEIVES the whole world; he was cast to the earth, and his angels were cast out with him."
Looking back on Dennis' story, I came to another realization of the meaning.
"And war broke out in heaven: Micheal and his angels fought with the dragon; and the dragon and his angels fought, but they DID NOT prevail, nor was a place found for them in heaven any longer."
Revelation 12: 7-8 NKJV
See, the evil lord of the castle (Satan) fought against and was overthrown by the good Lord (God) Another key part of this scripture comes in verse 8..."nor was a place found for them in heaven any longer." So, knowing this, if we are indeed in Christ, then satan and his angels (minions) have no place in our final destination, God has expelled them! However, the battle is not over...
"For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places."
Ephesians 6:12 NKJV
Knowing his final fate and resting place, satan and his angels will continue to war against God and his elect. As my good friend Chuck has related to me on many occasions..."When satan reminds you of your past, remind him of his future!" For me, the "past" satan reminds me of are my past failures and fears. This summer Dennis and I have enjoyed many a hiking trip with fellowship and good discussion on our lord Christ. Now, my fear of heights has come roaring back on MANY of these occasions, the "minions" have continued to whispered in my ear "You're going to fall off the edge of that trail and die!" I can honestly say I'm getting better at dealing with these messages, with a little help from Dennis and his wisdom and teaching. Not that it's happened, but if something DID happen to me, would I need to worry about my final destination? Jesus Christ is in me, so I'm assured of a place in heaven by his side!
"I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the LIFE which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me."
Galations 2:20 NKJV
Yes, the messages from Satan and his minions will continue to be directed my way, that will not change. However, one thing that also WILL NEVER change is my fellowship and inheritance I share with Christ Jesus. By knowing that we now live in Christ, we can fight the messages from satan and his minions, because with Christ we have overcome this world!
Monday, August 10, 2015
Being Christian
Should we be surprised that some of the most bad behaviors we witness each day come from people professing to be "Christian?" I don't find it too surprising, since we live in a fallen world and Humans are a sinful lot. Most of the world, however, seems to hold Christians to a higher standard than most everyone else. Time and again in scripture, we are warned that as believers we will face persecutions. Yet, we are surprised when they come. I've witnessed many a professing christian partake in bad behavior, and I myself have been guilty of this as well. The question is, should we, as christians, be held to a higher standard than non beliebvers?
"And you shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength." This is the first commandment. "And the second, like it, is this: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself." There is no other commandment greater than these."
Mark 12: 30-31 NKJV
Now, I don't know about anyone else, but I've been known to love myself and hold myself with high regard in the past. Yeah, how arrogant right? Here's the kicker, we're COMMANDED to love our neighbors as much as we love ourselves. Think about that, loving that pesky co worker with the same high degree that we hold ourselves? Loving our overbearing boss with the same high standard that we hold for ourselves? Most of us cherish ourselves and, in most situations, put our own interests above anyone elses. Can we show the selfless love that this scripture is calling for to others? How much would we change the world around us by doing just this? Instead of christiand being seen as pushy, preachy, arrogant, two faced and rude, we could be seen as loving, caring and thoughtful. Isn't this showing the true nature of Christ within us? How many others could we lead to Christ by focusing on doing this? Why would Christ reference this if not to have us put it into practice? Throughout the gospels, we see Jesus interacting with those around him with love and compassion. In the few occasions he did show anger, he did so to rebuke those whose behaviors were hurting other people. There's no record of anyone else in scripture referring to Jewish religious leaders of the day as a "Brood of vipers." However, these were the same peoople who were burdening the people. Think of a few of the people whom Jesus comforted, a tax collector, a adultress and a thief just to name a few.
And when the scribes and pharisees saw him eating with the tax collectors and sinners, they said to his disciples, "How is it thathe eats and drinks with tax collectors and sinners?" When Jesus heard it, he said to them, "Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. I did not come to call the righteous, but sinners, to repentance."
Mark 2:16-17 NKJV
This is a powerful statement from a man who the world recognises as being one of the most gentle and caring people ever. Are we willing to show this level of selfless kindness today?
"And you shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength." This is the first commandment. "And the second, like it, is this: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself." There is no other commandment greater than these."
Mark 12: 30-31 NKJV
Now, I don't know about anyone else, but I've been known to love myself and hold myself with high regard in the past. Yeah, how arrogant right? Here's the kicker, we're COMMANDED to love our neighbors as much as we love ourselves. Think about that, loving that pesky co worker with the same high degree that we hold ourselves? Loving our overbearing boss with the same high standard that we hold for ourselves? Most of us cherish ourselves and, in most situations, put our own interests above anyone elses. Can we show the selfless love that this scripture is calling for to others? How much would we change the world around us by doing just this? Instead of christiand being seen as pushy, preachy, arrogant, two faced and rude, we could be seen as loving, caring and thoughtful. Isn't this showing the true nature of Christ within us? How many others could we lead to Christ by focusing on doing this? Why would Christ reference this if not to have us put it into practice? Throughout the gospels, we see Jesus interacting with those around him with love and compassion. In the few occasions he did show anger, he did so to rebuke those whose behaviors were hurting other people. There's no record of anyone else in scripture referring to Jewish religious leaders of the day as a "Brood of vipers." However, these were the same peoople who were burdening the people. Think of a few of the people whom Jesus comforted, a tax collector, a adultress and a thief just to name a few.
And when the scribes and pharisees saw him eating with the tax collectors and sinners, they said to his disciples, "How is it thathe eats and drinks with tax collectors and sinners?" When Jesus heard it, he said to them, "Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. I did not come to call the righteous, but sinners, to repentance."
Mark 2:16-17 NKJV
This is a powerful statement from a man who the world recognises as being one of the most gentle and caring people ever. Are we willing to show this level of selfless kindness today?
Sunday, August 9, 2015
Here Comes The Law!
"For whoever shall keep the whole law, and yet stumble in one point, he is guilty of all. For he who said 'Dot notcommit adultry,'' also said, 'Do not commit murder.' Now if you do not commit adultry, but you do murder, you have become a transgressor of the law"
James 2:10-11 NKJV
Alot has been said and written these days about "old" and "new" covenants in the bible. Basicaly, the "old" is that which was given by God to Moses and the Isrealites, Gods chosen people. For me, it was fuzzy where the "New" covenant began, but through the assistance of a few faithful men, I believe that the new covenant begins with Christs death at the cross. A portion of Christs teachings, therefore, were in the context of speaking to those who were still under the old law of Moses, but that is another discussion entirely. The old law laid out commandments, instructions of "what not to do." We've all read the ten commandments and its echo of "Thou Shalt Not." Well, this was the old law. I'm wondering if Charlton Heston knew the difference? So, basically, the law given by God to Moses was a list of instructions to the Jewish people. The old law pointed out mans sin, but did nothing to wipe away that sin. It wasn't until Christs death on the cross that the atonement came. See, under the law given by God to Moses, mans sin REQUIRED a blood sacrafice, which is what was achieved at Calvary. In fact, to this day, devout Jews worldwide adhere to the old law given by God to Moses! If we, as citizens, take a piece of candy from a store without paying for it, we are stealing. Yes, it was only a small item, but stealing is stealing under our legal system! See any resemblence to James 2:10 there? Break ANY part of the law, and you're BREAKING THE LAW! So, how can a system of laws save man who's sin is always in front of him? We have a sinful nature, and a system of laws given to point out sins DOES NOT bring about freedom from sin. Now, what if God used the Old Law to set up the new covenant? The Old Law, given by God, stipulated that sin required a blood sacrafice. Centuries later, through his son at the cross, that sacrafice was satisfied. Jesus was that final sacrafice for mankinds sins.
James 2:10-11 NKJV
Alot has been said and written these days about "old" and "new" covenants in the bible. Basicaly, the "old" is that which was given by God to Moses and the Isrealites, Gods chosen people. For me, it was fuzzy where the "New" covenant began, but through the assistance of a few faithful men, I believe that the new covenant begins with Christs death at the cross. A portion of Christs teachings, therefore, were in the context of speaking to those who were still under the old law of Moses, but that is another discussion entirely. The old law laid out commandments, instructions of "what not to do." We've all read the ten commandments and its echo of "Thou Shalt Not." Well, this was the old law. I'm wondering if Charlton Heston knew the difference? So, basically, the law given by God to Moses was a list of instructions to the Jewish people. The old law pointed out mans sin, but did nothing to wipe away that sin. It wasn't until Christs death on the cross that the atonement came. See, under the law given by God to Moses, mans sin REQUIRED a blood sacrafice, which is what was achieved at Calvary. In fact, to this day, devout Jews worldwide adhere to the old law given by God to Moses! If we, as citizens, take a piece of candy from a store without paying for it, we are stealing. Yes, it was only a small item, but stealing is stealing under our legal system! See any resemblence to James 2:10 there? Break ANY part of the law, and you're BREAKING THE LAW! So, how can a system of laws save man who's sin is always in front of him? We have a sinful nature, and a system of laws given to point out sins DOES NOT bring about freedom from sin. Now, what if God used the Old Law to set up the new covenant? The Old Law, given by God, stipulated that sin required a blood sacrafice. Centuries later, through his son at the cross, that sacrafice was satisfied. Jesus was that final sacrafice for mankinds sins.
Saturday, August 8, 2015
Gods Creation
In the begining God created the heavens and the earth.
Genesis 1:1
From the begining, we see our God speaking words to create something from nothing. How many of us can make that claim? On a rcent walk across Gods creation the topic came up between Dennis and I of creation and Gods presence within it. Of course, I'm of the belief that, if God indeed created all that we see, and we're assured that he did, that his imprints on his creation go far beyond what we can see. Are we to believe that, if God created all that we see, that he stopped short of having his fingerprints, his very DNA, upon all that he created? I feel we would be foolish to dispute this. So, in ALL that holy God created, his presence remains just as he remains in us.
"All the earth worships you and sings praises to you; they sing praises to your name."
Selah (Consider this!)
Psalm 66:4 ESV
So, if "all the earth" worships our holy God creator, we should assume a powerful, intimate connection between God and all that he created? I'm of the belief this is the very case.
"Then God saw everything that he had made, and indeed it was very good. So the evening and the morning were the sixth day"
Genesis 1:31 NKJV
We've all heard that inspirational phrase, God doesn't make junk? Well, for those of you who don't believe that, here's proof! God created the earth and everything in and around it, and it was VERY GOOD. Not only does that include the heavens, stars, universe and all that we see, but you and me as well! Yes, think about that the next time satan begins to make you feel like you're worthless, God created you VERY GOOD. Oh, also remember that God created your enemy satan as well, so he has dominion over him! My friend Chuck has a saying, "When satan reminds you of your past, remind him of his future!" From scripture, we all know satans final destiny...utter defeat! So, despite what satan tells us, his fate is sealed. You could say he's attempting to take as many of Gods people out before his demise. Take heart, God does not want anyone to perish, but to come to salvation through Christ.
Genesis 1:1
From the begining, we see our God speaking words to create something from nothing. How many of us can make that claim? On a rcent walk across Gods creation the topic came up between Dennis and I of creation and Gods presence within it. Of course, I'm of the belief that, if God indeed created all that we see, and we're assured that he did, that his imprints on his creation go far beyond what we can see. Are we to believe that, if God created all that we see, that he stopped short of having his fingerprints, his very DNA, upon all that he created? I feel we would be foolish to dispute this. So, in ALL that holy God created, his presence remains just as he remains in us.
"All the earth worships you and sings praises to you; they sing praises to your name."
Selah (Consider this!)
Psalm 66:4 ESV
So, if "all the earth" worships our holy God creator, we should assume a powerful, intimate connection between God and all that he created? I'm of the belief this is the very case.
"Then God saw everything that he had made, and indeed it was very good. So the evening and the morning were the sixth day"
Genesis 1:31 NKJV
We've all heard that inspirational phrase, God doesn't make junk? Well, for those of you who don't believe that, here's proof! God created the earth and everything in and around it, and it was VERY GOOD. Not only does that include the heavens, stars, universe and all that we see, but you and me as well! Yes, think about that the next time satan begins to make you feel like you're worthless, God created you VERY GOOD. Oh, also remember that God created your enemy satan as well, so he has dominion over him! My friend Chuck has a saying, "When satan reminds you of your past, remind him of his future!" From scripture, we all know satans final destiny...utter defeat! So, despite what satan tells us, his fate is sealed. You could say he's attempting to take as many of Gods people out before his demise. Take heart, God does not want anyone to perish, but to come to salvation through Christ.
Thursday, August 6, 2015
Not Your Typical Church
"However, the most high does not dwell in temples made with hands, as the prophet says: 'Heaven is my throne, and the earth is my footstool. What house will you build for me? says the Lord, Or what is the place of my rest? Has my hand not made all these things?'
Acts 7: 49-50 NKJV
Througout history man has constructed countless temples, churches and mega churches in an effort to draw the masses in. The largest, grandest building would be sure to bring in many more believers? Let's not forget the mega sports stadium salvation rallies designed to lead thousands to God! Is our God really that impersonal to converge on a group of thousands of people to give his blessing? Do we need thousands of people shouting together before God decides to pay attention? Acts 7: 49 would say no. In fact, despite all of the churches built by mankind, are we any closer to a relationship with him? Again, I say negative. God is more into personal relationships with us than leading mass rallies of people. As a matter of fact, Christ Jesus came to be a mediator between us and our holy God. Because of this, we now have direct access to God himself. We no longer have need of a high priest to communicate with God on our behalf. At any time, we can close our eyes and talk directly with our Lord, THAT is relationship at its core. Despite all of the buildings we've built in the name of God, are we to believe that God has need of them? The creator of all mankind and the universe needs a building? Here's a radical concept, what if we just did away with the buildings and focused on our relationship with him? You know, the type of relationship Adam and Eve enjoyed with God before the fall? The kind of one on one relationships enjoyed by Abraham, Moses and David? How would you love to be called a "friend of God" as Abraham was described? Well, we have that access to God today. We have the ability to communicate directly with our heavenly father. So, instead of worrying about which church building we will belong to, let's revel in the relationship we have with him. It is our relationship that God desires more than the buildings man creates.
Acts 7: 49-50 NKJV
Througout history man has constructed countless temples, churches and mega churches in an effort to draw the masses in. The largest, grandest building would be sure to bring in many more believers? Let's not forget the mega sports stadium salvation rallies designed to lead thousands to God! Is our God really that impersonal to converge on a group of thousands of people to give his blessing? Do we need thousands of people shouting together before God decides to pay attention? Acts 7: 49 would say no. In fact, despite all of the churches built by mankind, are we any closer to a relationship with him? Again, I say negative. God is more into personal relationships with us than leading mass rallies of people. As a matter of fact, Christ Jesus came to be a mediator between us and our holy God. Because of this, we now have direct access to God himself. We no longer have need of a high priest to communicate with God on our behalf. At any time, we can close our eyes and talk directly with our Lord, THAT is relationship at its core. Despite all of the buildings we've built in the name of God, are we to believe that God has need of them? The creator of all mankind and the universe needs a building? Here's a radical concept, what if we just did away with the buildings and focused on our relationship with him? You know, the type of relationship Adam and Eve enjoyed with God before the fall? The kind of one on one relationships enjoyed by Abraham, Moses and David? How would you love to be called a "friend of God" as Abraham was described? Well, we have that access to God today. We have the ability to communicate directly with our heavenly father. So, instead of worrying about which church building we will belong to, let's revel in the relationship we have with him. It is our relationship that God desires more than the buildings man creates.
Wednesday, August 5, 2015
Imperfect Surroundings
Like most people, I often find that the environment around me dictates my thoughts and/or behaviour. Not only do we live in a fallen world, but we are surrounded by sinful people each day. In fact, there is no guaranteee that the friends you have, be they christian or not, will be there standing beside you tomorow. The only guarantee we have is through God, who will never leave us nor forsake us. Men may fail us, but God never will. Likewise, we cannot expect the world around us to be any better. However, one thing we can do is make our corner of the world better. Scripture tells us that a lamp is not hidden under a basket, but placed on a lampstand to illuminate the entire room. Likewise, as Christians, we have daily opportunities to let the light of God show through us. Whether it is a harsh word turned away or a word of comfort to someone who is troubled, we are Gods representatives to the world. My dear friend David recently told me when I expressed my worries about inviting a non christian to a movie screeing fearing the "preachy" intro would scare them away. "Why are you worried? He said, get out of the way and let God work" This is sound advice for anyone these days. We should not worry about whether we sound too "preachy" to someone who is hurting or in need, not only will God give us the words to say in times like this, but if we are in prayer, he will bring people into our lives who simply need to hear about Jesus. My friend David has made many contacts and friends from simply sitting in Starbucks and starting conversations with people. He is not hitting them over the head with the gospel, but HE WILL tell them about Jesus. Another good friend, Chuck, has used his platform as a family physician over the years to tell his patients about Jesus. See, we never know the impact that our conversations will eventually have on someone, perhaps they were meant to hear what we had to say. "Be ready in season and out of season" the scripture warns. We should always be prepared to share the man Christ Jesus to anyone who will listen. After all, we are Gods messangers to a fallen world.
Sunday, August 2, 2015
Family Tradition
"...But lately some of my kinfolk, have disowned a few of us and me
I guess it's because, I kinda changed my direction
Lord I guess I went and broke their...Family Tradition"
Family Tradition ~ Hank Williams Junior AKA "Bo Sheevus"
Alot of us wouldn't think of country crooner Hank Williams Junior as delivering a religious message. Conservative, yes, but religious? Bo Sheevus spent a good portion of his career addicted to alchohol and drugs, which he makes famous in the same song...
"Lordy I have loved some women, and I have loved Jim Beam
And they both tried to kill me, in 1973
When that doctor asked me, son how'd you get in this condition?
I said, hey sawbones I'm just carrying on an old...family tradition"
Can you see the lesson here? Many times we get set in destructive behaviors just because we know no other way. Traditions can be passed down from generation to generation, or they can be aquired from the people/environment that surrounds us. A few years back, I found myself with a bad attitude and foul language simply because that was what I was surrounded by at work on a daily basis. It took me some time, and a few mentors kicking me in the butt, to realize and address that issue. Others have carried over addictions to alchohol, drugs, abuse and other bad issues either from upbringing or environment. For me, I was surrounded by a negative environment at work every day. That was a conscious decision on my part to engage in the negativity. So, is there a cure for this? Absolutely! If we are products of our environment, is it safe to assume that a change in our surroundings or how we look at them cann produce change? For me, it was the relationships with a few mentors that opened my eyes to the fact that what I was exhibiting was not the "True Scott" The true Scott is not a failure, addict, negative personality. When Christ is in us, WE ARE a part of him! Scripture tells us that we were crucified with Christ, we are a part of him. It is no longer our "Old Self" who defines us, but our new selves bestowed by Jesus. So, knowing this, how can we change our environment around us? We can start by developing a few relationships with fellow Christian guys/gals. Sound easy? Perhaps, but it's something even I struggle with. See, it's easier to sit on the sidelines waiting for people to come to you than it is to seek out a few brothers. How much easier would it be if we were all part of one Christian community? In a sense we are, God does not want ANYONE to perish, but for all to come to Christ! In a way, we're just building that community from the ground up :)
I guess it's because, I kinda changed my direction
Lord I guess I went and broke their...Family Tradition"
Family Tradition ~ Hank Williams Junior AKA "Bo Sheevus"
Alot of us wouldn't think of country crooner Hank Williams Junior as delivering a religious message. Conservative, yes, but religious? Bo Sheevus spent a good portion of his career addicted to alchohol and drugs, which he makes famous in the same song...
"Lordy I have loved some women, and I have loved Jim Beam
And they both tried to kill me, in 1973
When that doctor asked me, son how'd you get in this condition?
I said, hey sawbones I'm just carrying on an old...family tradition"
Can you see the lesson here? Many times we get set in destructive behaviors just because we know no other way. Traditions can be passed down from generation to generation, or they can be aquired from the people/environment that surrounds us. A few years back, I found myself with a bad attitude and foul language simply because that was what I was surrounded by at work on a daily basis. It took me some time, and a few mentors kicking me in the butt, to realize and address that issue. Others have carried over addictions to alchohol, drugs, abuse and other bad issues either from upbringing or environment. For me, I was surrounded by a negative environment at work every day. That was a conscious decision on my part to engage in the negativity. So, is there a cure for this? Absolutely! If we are products of our environment, is it safe to assume that a change in our surroundings or how we look at them cann produce change? For me, it was the relationships with a few mentors that opened my eyes to the fact that what I was exhibiting was not the "True Scott" The true Scott is not a failure, addict, negative personality. When Christ is in us, WE ARE a part of him! Scripture tells us that we were crucified with Christ, we are a part of him. It is no longer our "Old Self" who defines us, but our new selves bestowed by Jesus. So, knowing this, how can we change our environment around us? We can start by developing a few relationships with fellow Christian guys/gals. Sound easy? Perhaps, but it's something even I struggle with. See, it's easier to sit on the sidelines waiting for people to come to you than it is to seek out a few brothers. How much easier would it be if we were all part of one Christian community? In a sense we are, God does not want ANYONE to perish, but for all to come to Christ! In a way, we're just building that community from the ground up :)
Saturday, August 1, 2015
Friends In Christ
Mentors are a good thing, guidance for our lives that we may not otherwise have. However, nothing can replace the relationships we develop with our own peers around us. I've been blessed to have the mentorship and guidance of four of the most Godly men I know. For this I am thankful, but what I lack are those peer to peer relationships apparently. It seems right, mentors are very needed for spiritual and life guidance, but we MUST have friends, buddies, brothers in arms as well. Phil Downer recently recounted how his comrade Crosley from Vietnam had recently revealed to him years after returning home from Southeast Asia, his deep appreciation for Phil saving his life. "Thanks for coming for me Downer" was brother Crosleys reply. See, not only did Phil save Crosleys life in Vietnam, but led him to Christ years later, saving his soul. Alot has been said in modern Christian literature about Christian men rallying around one another in "Gods army" with spiritual swords drawn ready to slay our adversaries. The use of military jargon in modern Christianity may seem offensive to some, motivating to others. The way I see it, it's all about relationship. Upon entering the military, a young man (or woman) will immediately be "torn down" by military authority in order to be shaped into the soldiers needed by our nation. This process produces in those who undergo it a sense of brotherhood, that's the goal. Can we simply develop that relationship with another man and say "hey, brother, we're in this together now"? As men, we usually will not do that. If we follow the model of my dads generation, we "go it alone", requesting neither help or assistance from anyone until we're brought low enough to where seeking help from someone else is our only option. Pride, and pride alone, can be our downfall to relationships. I know this for a fact, I've lived it. Men are strong both emotionaly and physically, and if they EVER ask for help, then you know something has gone wrong. This attitude flies in the face of what I believe God planned for us as men. Looking into the relationship Jesus shared with his disciples we see nobody in that group walking outside the community they had established. No, these men shared life with Jesus by spending their lives with him. As Jesus selected his chosen men we see a common approach..."follow me". Ultimately, at the cross, the disciples scattered, but their ministry became legendary. So, if Jesus chose community with these men, wouldn't it be safe to assume that he wants the same for us? It takes alot for a man to step out of his shell and develop Godly friendships, believe me I've struggled with this very thing! However, how can the joy of God be spread if not through the fellowship of friends?
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